Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
Find a Local Couselor
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: IWantToSurvive (44222)

General Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: His consequences... my pain
whiteflower99
♀ Member
Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I swear I feel like a rat in a cage on a wheel...
My stbx's latest party was with a coworker. Due to circumstances unaffiliated with the affair, he was transferred to another location. So while they both work for the same company, they are not together.
in any event it doesn't matter because she is the one who confessed their affair to me, so I know there is no contact.
Today he was visited by senior management and told he was being demoted. While he understands that these are consequences that he must face as a result of his actions, I am left wondering (again) what consequences is she going to face if any. this is a recurring theme. He screws around, he loses his job, or gets demoted, and financially I am the one paying the price.
I am so damned pissed.
Once again, the OW wins.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1689 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
callmecrazy
♀ Member
Member # 38765
Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unfortunately, there is nothing fair to the BS, ever when it comes to an A and what comes after. Hugs whiteflower

Posts: 279 | Registered: Mar 2013
TrustGone
♀ Member
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unfortunately these are the results of what they did to us and themselves. Hopefully your stxwh gets the consequences of what he did and will seek help. It is often the BS that gets the worst and it's certainly not fair, but it's he way it is. (((HUGS)))


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
whiteflower99
♀ Member
Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It isn't my stbx. Its the damned audacity of this OW. She tried to spin it like she was in fear of her job etc ;
And he gets a pay cut and she gets ... nothing? Because she is a victim???


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1689 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
Topic Posts: 4

Return to Forum: General Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.