Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.
Your story might not have the twists and turns that other have, but it doesn't diminish the pain of betrayal. Try not to sweep this under the rug and make yourself feel that you shouldn't feel betrayed and hurt. These need to be addressed and worked through in order for you to heal from things.
There is nothing wrong with forgiving and falling back in love. And there is nothing wrong if you feel that you can't do it and have to walk away. You are now on your own journey with your Husband. The two of you will choose the paths to take and that will determine where your marriage ends up.
Use the site for learning and support. Read through posts and the healing library, helping others along the way can be uplifting too. Keep posting with any questions you have or to work through your feelings.
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum
It's a rough trip, but it sounds like you know what you want, and have a plan to get there. You'll get a lot of information from here, some of it not what you want to hear right now, but most of it well-intentioned and good (Look a couple posts up from yours, that "What a BS needs to know to protect themselves Financially" is a good, if uncomfortable, read).
I think that any type of betrayal is extremely hurtful. All of our stories are different, but we are all hurting and that's what connects all of us on this forum. Do not compare your situation to others. You have every right to feel the way you do and don't try to diminish your pain because you don't feel like your situation is as bad as others. I do understand that though. Since my WBF only did stuff online and through messaging I have felt like that before, but lies and betrayal hurt no matter what.
Hugs to you!