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User Topic: Now he's threatening court again
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about a translation for that?

Here is my best attempt.

To bad I'm getting u for comptent for felling there headed up with shit
Contiment

What he meant to say: Too bad, Iím getting you for contempt for filling their heads up with shit. Contempt.

What that means: Regrettably, since I don't want to follow the agreement, Iím going to have to attempt to sue you for contempt for listening to and supporting your children instead of doing everything in your power to conceal my idiocy, neglect, and disregard for their well being. Thatís contempt, right?


Posts: 3445 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yes, of course!
It's you filling their heads up with shit.
Peridot you bad, bad mommy!!!

Keep listening to them.
FTG


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1420 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So he failed twice in two different ways at writing contempt in the same email? Too bad his designated writer left him alone with the computer, I can just picture him trying to figure out how to reply on his own and looking around desperately for assistance before writing this Pulitzer material. Wow.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
peridot
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Think I know the reasoning behind him wanting to see the kids after not having any contact with them for over a year.

A few weeks ago I met my dad and brother with the kids at McDonalds. His neice was there. She has never met either one of them. She was messing with her phone. Even if she managed to sneak a picture, he has never met them either because I hadn't seen my dad or brother for years.

I have a feeling the neice told my ex that she seen me at McDonalds with some guys.

The first time he messaged me was two days after seeing her at McDonalds.

My guess is, he thinks I have a boyfriend and I am taking the kids around some guy. Why else would he contact me after so long? Little does he know those guys were just my dad and brother.

Maybe it is karma in the making. Afterall, he and the OW were trying to force the OW in my kids lives before the divorce was even final. She went as far to try and call herself my kids mom.

Every one of us with kids on this board knows what that's like. Now he is getting a taste of it even if it's not real.

That's my take on why he all the sudden wants to see the kids again.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me as another that had to re-read that message 5 times to figure it out.

Contiment. Huh? What the heck is that supposed to be?


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8078 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
peridot
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What he meant to say: Too bad, Iím getting you for contempt for filling their heads up with shit. Contempt.

What that means: Regrettably, since I don't want to follow the agreement, Iím going to have to attempt to sue you for contempt for listening to and supporting your children instead of doing everything in your power to conceal my idiocy, neglect, and disregard for their well being. Thatís contempt, right?

That's exactly what he was trying to say. I think I hit a nerve with the truth.

He normally has the OW there telling him what to say or even trying to act like him and typing it herself. She's in jail right now though. So he's having to deal with me himself.

Oh yes, of course!
It's you filling their heads up with shit.
Peridot you bad, bad mommy!!!
Keep listening to them.
FTG

Of course, the kids could never have a mind of their own.

If you listen to him, I am a bad mommy.

Funny, he's the only one that thinks that.

I will never stop listening to them. My kids are my heart and soul. I'll be damned if he's ever able to hurt them again.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, I want a hot dog with that contiment!

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Catwoman, when I read that at 7am this morning. I thought he was trying to say condiment.

He is going to give me condiments for filling their heads with shit.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:39 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is the idiot to English translation for "contiment"?

I totally misread that. I thought it was a sign off. It starts with a C and only has 4 letters.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:40 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Peridot, I am so sorry about his fuckery, but thank you so much for sharing his condiment message.

The only words spelled correctly in that garbled nonsense are "bad" and "shit", which seems very telling.

I thought he might be trying to say "incontinent", like maybe he thought that is a cool big boy word that means something bad, and will make him sound SMRT so he is calling you one.

Get off this continent, you incontinent contemptible condiment!


Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
shiloe
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is going to give me condiments for filling their heads with shit.


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with yet another married ho-worker. Kicked h

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only words spelled correctly in that garbled nonsense are "bad" and "shit", which seems very telling.

I hadn't even thought about that lol.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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LeopoldB
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stupidity is not a legal defense, but
he makes a persuasive case for it.

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does he go by ketchup, mustard, or relish?

All I could think of was "Condiment" when I saw that bizarre final word.

ETA: Ha! Great minds think alike! I see I'm not the only one who thinks he's talking about what goes well with a weenie.

I grade the essays of teenagers, and I've never seen anything as bad as that!

[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 6:26 PM, October 11th (Friday)]


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Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does he go by ketchup, mustard, or relish?

How about mus turd.

I grade the essays of teenagers, and I've never seen anything as bad as that!

My 8 yr old and 12 yr old write better than he does.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, I agree with the crickets reply. With court you can't ever know what will pop out of the other side's "britches or briefs". We don't know what can come back to hurt us even in defense of ourselves or kids...these are some lessons I'm learning about who XPervert has become.

When it's all about them, the x's will stop at nothing.

I did enjoy the misspellings and had my first chuckle in mediation because of this...XPervert is ballistic when anyone he cares about gets their name spelled incorrectly.

So on the drafts of legal papers, his very own lawyer (holy moly, what a guy!, rainbow suspenders and dockers to court and one paper in the brief case, lol) spelled DD's name wrong all over the place!!

I mentioned it to my L and he got a real charge at the meeting by bringing it up first. It's these stupid little "details" that make life... interesting, isn't it?

I might not even have noticed if XPervert wasn't so anal about it.

Now this is to the point where if he meets a "far-eign" person, he will try to correct them into pronouncing his way and will make that his current life's work.

I tend to think it's kind of fun to hear words and names in other languages and sounds.

P.S. I thought your X was going on a trip to another "continent"? Maybe spell check on his computer is broken or just put there for decoration. Hah.

[This message edited by Ashland13 at 11:12 AM, October 12th (Saturday)]


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

P.S. I thought your X was going on a trip to another "continent"?

I couldn't get so lucky lol.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 1:21 AM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG - having a bad night and so glad I clicked on this thread. I am laughing hysterically and have tears streaming down my face. Haven't had a good laugh like this in a while...

I don't think you have any worries about him getting you for contempt since he's not even in the ballpark of spelling it correctly.

I feel bad laughing at someone's incredible stupidity, but it couldn't happen to a nicer person....


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah yes, mus-turd. The correct condiment for a shit sandwich.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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