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User Topic: Update on DD in treatment
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK and family))). You have a lot on your plate, sister.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 6926 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I can't even imagine what you and your dd must be going through right now. All I can offer is tons of hugs and prayers for you both.

I'm curious- I might have missed this, and feel free not to share, but does your DD have a Dx? If so, what is it?

More hugs to you both.

(((NIK)))
(((DD)))


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abby - She has multiple Dx. She's on the spectrum, although very high functioning. She also has what her doctor refers to as the Tourettes Triangle - comorbid Tourettes, ADHD, and OCD. Impulsivity and rage go hand-in-hand with her conditions.

She's a complex girl.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Difficult, but necessary. I'm sorry you're going through this, and I hope this program is able to help her. I can relate to the struggle as a parent, when your heart and love tugs at you when you are doing the tough love that you KNOW they need.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish you strength. I know this is really rough for you but know that you are doing the best for her. I hope she is able to settle into a good place for her soon.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))))


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
separated 1/2011

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Empress))) I love hearing about your daughter and her progress. I'm glad she is in the best place possible and on her long road to getting better. Lean on us anytime.


happiness is a direction, not a place.

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))) I think of you and your DD often. Prayers for progress and peace!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs Empress - you are amazing and I know you will do all you can for your girl - you are. <3


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abby - She has multiple Dx. She's on the spectrum, although very high functioning. She also has what her doctor refers to as the Tourettes Triangle - comorbid Tourettes, ADHD, and OCD. Impulsivity and rage go hand-in-hand with her conditions.
She's a complex girl.


Yes, that's quite a complex Dx but the things in the triangle usually are comorbid. I've read that people usually present either with Tourette's/ADHD or Tourette's/OCD but I have not done extensive research in this area (my exH has Tourette's/ADHD so I've done some research since it's heritable and might affect DS one day). I had no clue about the "triangle." The impulsivity and rage associated with that Dx has to be very difficult to deal with, for you and for DD. And the fact that she's on the Autism spectrum, albeit high functioning, certainly doesn't help.

I will keep praying for you guys.

[This message edited by abbycadabby at 8:37 AM, October 11th (Friday)]


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik))) (((nik'sdd))) (((nik'sds)))

You are the bravest, strongest, most amazing, sensible person I "know".


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 8947 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all for keeping DD in your thoughts and prayers. It means the world to me.

She has been on the new meds since Tuesday. She seems much calmer now and has said that her thoughts have been less "wacko." I'm cautiously optimistic.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Baby steps forward, NIK.
Sending strength vibes your way......


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCyL6pa_L4M


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