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trustagain
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Member # 16921
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like I have been away for so long and for that I apologize. So many things happened this summer (good and bad) that time just slipped away.


WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

Posts: 4472 | Registered: Nov 2007
unbreak_my_heart
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Member # 12145
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, you are here now!
Hope it wasn't too much bad.


HAPPILY RECONCILED!

I ♥ my Husband!!!


Posts: 2285 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Our happy place
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, trustagain!

You have nothing to apologize for, honey. Hope the good from this summer outweighed the bad. Good to see you.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25526 | Registered: Aug 2011
trustagain
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Member # 16921
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't believe it is October. I lost so much time it seems. In a blink of an eye. WOW!!!

I saw a Christmas commercial the other day and it hit me. My Mom always said the older you get the faster time goes by - and that is the truth.

DS17 is driving - has a job and is a senior.

DS24 is still planning to marry his GF when she completes medical school (2 more years).

My Moms 75th birthday was yesterday and her and my Aunt (twin) are on a 2 week Panama Canal cruise celebrating with my Dad and Uncle. yeah for them!

The bad part - I have been going back and forth to doctors with my SIL since June 28th (which happened to be the 1 year anniversary of my brothers death). She has been diagnosed with Stage 4 triple negative breast cancer - it is in her lymph nodes at the neck and chest cavity. There is no cure. Since June she has been for test after test, doctor after doctor. She finally picked the 3rd one she saw and loved. They were planning to start chemo (pill form) this Friday, but I think that will change now. She has since found two more lumps in her other breast and more in her neck. This is bad. My niece and nephew ( they are young adults) are a mess. They lost their Dad and now this.

But anyway - wanted to say hi and check in. I am reading, reading, reading trying to catch up.

It is sad, no matter how long I have been gone (I don't even know how long)I read the same stories over and over. Still makes me sick.


WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

Posts: 4472 | Registered: Nov 2007
hardtimesinlife
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Member # 10468
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((trustagain)))
(((trustagainSIL & kids)))

How nice that she has you to lean on. How awful for all of you.


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6112 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((sil & kids)))) I can't even imagine, honey. I'll hold your family in my thoughts.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25526 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((trust, sil & kids)))

I'm so sorry. Saying prayers and keeping your family in my thoughts.


Posts: 35405 | Registered: Mar 2011
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TA)))))

Please look into palliative care for your SIL. Its kind ofnlike hospice and could be the right mix if support and care she and her young adult kids need.

(((And strength to your whole clan))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8598 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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