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User Topic: Today he really stepped up...
cuppacoffee
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been dealing with a nasty headache for a week today.

My husband stepped it up around the house without complaining. He told me that I take care of him mentally (he has depression) so it was his turn to take care of me.

A few months back or last year he wouldn't have cared. But today he gets it.

I hope this is another step towards R for us.


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 342 | Registered: May 2013
megs56
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad your H stepped it up around the house without complaining and I hope you feel better soon! :)


Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.


Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Sacramento, Ca
jjsr
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Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a good thing


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1529 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Texas
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad that he pampered you!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4085 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
AppleBlossom
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done Mr cuppa. It was great that not only did he help you out, but he acknowledged what you do for him.

Posts: 153 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Australia
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