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User Topic: Is "insanely clingy" a phase for the WS? WS and BS welcome
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just looking for some input/stories/etc. about when the very remorseful WS started realizing how much they hurt the BS.
Mine is so lovey, clingy, romantic, talking with me all the time...THIS IS NOT BAD...
I am just wondering how long he can keep it up.
Is this the new him? (Because I do need to work, take care of the kids, etc. etc.) I joke a little- but you get the idea.

Any stories from both sides are welcome.

Any input on how the truly remorseful WS behaves and is it a phase, or the new him?


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
hopefullromantic
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, it probably won't last. You are sort of in a honeymoon phase now, and we know those don't last. Remember, he went thru a trauma also, albeit self imposed. He could have lost you! Things will settle down and you might actually miss the clinging a little bit.


It's not really a fairy tale 'till the witch is deposed and a few dragons are slain

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been 4 years and while I'm not insanely clingy, I do want to be with my H A LOT.


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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Zayda1
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH gets like this. It seems to go in cycles. Enjoy it while it lasts.


Married 9 years, together for 11 years
2 children (7 years & 4 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

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Zayda1
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oops, double post. Dumb tablet.

[This message edited by Zayda1 at 3:52 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)]


Married 9 years, together for 11 years
2 children (7 years & 4 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

Posts: 465 | Registered: Apr 2012
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It comes and goes with me. In the early days, I was a leech.

Now, it comes and goes. If we hit a downward slump or if one of us triggers badly, I'll get more "clingy".

I'm not really a "touchy" person, but I do my best to stay near and in close contact during those phases.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone for your responses. Sincerely.
But I must say... I am really starting to get tired of the word "phase".
Is this how it's going to be? Every few weeks we get into another phase?
Oy vey.


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
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