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User Topic: I can't let go
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Befuzzled, thanks, that is a good suggestion. I had in fact considered it when I read that post the other day.

I think I may do it, even though my own story seems so blurred and fuzzy right now. Maybe then, my H will be able to insert his story to mine.

And no, I am not trying to punish. There are days when I am quite hopeful and grateful that we are together and trying to make it work.

I try to be happy. I want us both to be happy, but the trying wears me down.

I try to push down the obsessive thoughts, but they come back to bite me-with a vengeance. It is at those times when I need him to step into my world for a bit. To understand the thoughts, worries and imaginings.

In the beginning he was very patient. Now, I'm afraid he has moved ahead without me.

I won't give up yet.

Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

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