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User Topic: Retribution
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been an honorable man

You won't ever get to say that again without appending "Except for" if you do this. Even if it's just in your head. You'll get to stick your dick in a woman you aren't married to and lie to your wife about it and tell yourself all kinds of things to make it sound okay.

I only ever been with my wife too, but I don't think there's a pussy on this planet worth that. Maybe if one comes along and does a Gilbert & Sullivan routine and has Oktoberfest on tap I'll reassess but until then I am pretty sure they all do the same thing and are all attached to people. People willing to cheat, in this case.

If you want to hurt your wife, divorce her and be happy. This will just disgust and validate her.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bad ? Hell no. My wife did the same , and yes I was with her for 20 years , loyal and she was all I knew! I didn't even think of cheating . She was not my only , I had a couple of girls before her but she was all I knew for 20 years and after her infidelity and abuse and divorce with no remorse at all . I used my anger and kept it. I felt like I was still cheating if I tried to pick up another woman. Even after I heard stories of her with her boyfriend I still couldn't bring myself to date or have sex. I think that your feelings are normal when you love someone that much. Although I have started dating again. Things are different at 40 from 20. That's for sure. So don't feel bad at all. Think about you now. She and my stbxww thought only about themselves when they cheated. Good luck


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

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LeopoldB
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do it or don't do it. Sounds like things are so screwed up it probably won't matter. One more fuck probably won't change things either way.

Personally, I would fuck her just for the fun of it and to find out whether it makes any difference.


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Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guess I should of read the whole tread before I posted. If you are not divorced and the affair is fresh. I agree with tred and the others you should not have a revenge affair! It will make you as bad as her. And drinking only makes it worse. The pain amplifies ! Go to the gym or hit the heavy bag.


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 580 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
emotionalgirl
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gorilla...I hope you are ok. Please remember all of us are hurting, but two wrongs never make a right.

The best revenge is living well and being happy. If you can not consider R with your WW then file for D, leave her with nothing but memories and get well, whole and happy.

I also urge you to reconsider the drinking at work thing. In today's job climate loosing your job could destroy you, if that happens she gets the last laugh!

There are tons of great women out there waiting for a loving honourable man who will stay faithful to them. Don't give up on yourself please.

[This message edited by emotionalgirl at 9:05 PM, October 4th (Friday)]


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

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