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User Topic: Really, WH? Is this probable or not?
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He says yes, and why did I think he didn't get her off?

My reply: because I've had sex with you.

Hope - you've been quoted. This is priceless.

And I believe he got her I believe in unicorns that shit chocolate.

Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. and 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha!! I love your response because I often say the same thing in my head when we discuss Miss Multiple Orgasms. I think we may have married relatives because they both have the same issues.

I have a hard time believing men who are not particularly adequate in bed can sleep with someone else and become amazing lovers. If they did learn something, I'd think some of that knowledge would rub off and there would be some improvement with their other partners. Mine insisted that he brought AP to orgasm multiple times during their hour long hotel room trysts. I can't believe that is true because the man doesn't know much about the female body and his technique is simplistic (I fault myself a little for not teaching him anything over the last 15 years. I just assumed he knew that the female body had more than a vagina and many (most) women need attention to other organs for more than a few minutes to orgasm)

So do I think your H was able to ring pleasure to a prostitute. Unlikely. Sounds like she earned her money.

Me: BW - 46
Him: WH - 49
MOW: my BFF from college and good friend for 25 yrs
Married 14 years, 2 Tweens
DD: 5/20/13 2 year long EA/PAs (one 7 yrs ago and one this past year)
Status: day by day, in MC, working on R

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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry if this is not appropriate to ask but when I read that a man cheated with a prostitute, is that the same thing as a call girl? Don't they worry about getting caught by the police?

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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course he rang her bells at least once....

Just like a slot machine. You put money in, and get just enough bells and whistles back to keep you putting more money in...

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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for all your input.

Glad I've merited the "I've been quoted!" award!

As for WH, he's not that big, he never did get that hard (even with the little blue pill or all the pill's brothers), and he always orgasmed too fast (within seconds, even with the little blue pill).

I can only hope that he orgasmed really fast with her too--after all, with her being so physically "attractive" and more *exciting* to him, well, that would have been enough to push him over the edge rather quickly.

I really wish--and part of this is my wish to squelch & stomp on his ego and to hurt him in retaliation--that he'd believe more fully that his little honey-on-the-side faked it.

I did remind him of the deli scene in "When Harry Met Sally" and WH still thinks he gave the skank whore some orgasms. Duh !

Me: early 60s
Him: 65 yrs old, LTA w/a pro$titute
Married since 1980, no children
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth Days: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
His affair--says it was only 8 times 1x/mo, then found out it was 7 YEARS 2-3x/mo or maybe ever 4x/mo

Posts: 359 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: out west/west coast U.S.A.
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I once knew a prostitute, but not in the "biblical sense". She was part of a circle of friends from work, was working the executive circuit in town. I knew her BF (don't ask me how anybody could be her BF). It took me a while to find out what she did for a living.

She specialized in GFE, or "Girl Friend Experience", which involves a fair amount of acting in addition to the sexual services. Apparently a very well paid occupation.

I once asked her if she ever "got off" with her clients, some of who kept coming back for years. She said "Never". In fact, her line of work had messed her up so bad she couldn't get off with her BF either.

But, she said she made sure every client thought she did. Except when she told them she'd for sure get off "next time".

[This message edited by MoreWould at 6:33 PM, October 4th (Friday)]

Me BH/WH, 63
Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

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