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User Topic: For those of you who did get revenge ...
90Worthless90
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did you feel afterwards? Did you feel better after?

I felt good at first, but then I regretted a few of the things I pulled. There is one I did not regret, though it didn't have any of the lasting effects I hoped...

If someone wants me to share my story of what I did, I will if you do.

I know people think revenge is immature, amongst other things. That's ok. Just stay out of the thread please. I would rather hear from other people who did want to give their WS and OP some suffering.

[This message edited by 90Worthless90 at 10:08 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)]


Me: 23

Him: 29

Together 6 years.

DS: 2yrs

Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"

Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posting in a general forum about a fairly polarizing topic and asking that people who disagree with your opinion not post may get you a couple of the responses you're looking for but will leave you where you are right now, without perspective.

I'm sorry you're hurting. Hope you feel better.


"You have insulted my footwear."

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sad34
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ap was a real tool, she actually gave me her email password so I could c my husbands emails. I wondered if it was also her Facebook account password and it was.I found out she had been seeing a bunch of different guys while sleeping with my husband . I cut and pasted the info and face booked and emailed to all her contacts. Did I feel good, I dunno but she sure deserved it!


Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R

Posts: 140 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: canada
Lonelygirl10
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I told the OW's new boyfriend about what she did, thinking that he would break up with her. Nope, he told me that he already knew about it.


30 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

Posts: 1212 | Registered: Jul 2013
90Worthless90
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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let's see.

Let's see. First I called her dad's job and told him about his marijuana use on the job. This didn't work. My boyfriend works with her father and intercepted it.

I reported her family for their welfare fraud. I later got an email saying they will look in to it. But I haven't heard from them since. This was in December. I would have heard about an investigation because my partner is still close to them . They could still do an investigation. I don't know how long things like that take.

These are both very true.

After she started taunting me about it. I wrote a lengthy message out to her 'husband' giving every detail I knew. Then I copy pasted the message and sent it to all of his family and friends on facebook.
She was here visiting when she and my partner were doing their dirt. I purposely waited until she went back to CT to do this, as she has no family of friends there. There was a lot of drama. My partner and her managed to convince him at that moment it wasn't true.... But He kicked her out a week or so later. They continued the affair when she came back and they eventually got back together...


Me: 23

Him: 29

Together 6 years.

DS: 2yrs

Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"

Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday


Posts: 28 | Registered: Jul 2013
TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was four months pregnant with baby #4 when I discovered my now XWH had been having affairs. I tried to work it out, and ended up pregnant again. During that 5th pregnancy, I convinced him to get it snipped, because I thought five children was a perfect amount.

My real reason was because I didn't see him changing and knew I wanted to finally leave. I didnt want him remarrying and having some young chick popping a baby out and taking his paycheck, and my children never seeing anything. Waited two more years, and then kicked him out.

Sure enough he went and married a woman 19 years younger. She's got him running around to fertility clinics to see what they can do. I was no idiot. When he went in to have it snipped, I made sure it wasn't just a snip. It was one where they actually removed an inch. There would be no way he could have it reversed.

I have no regrets, and my children are having a better childhood for it.

[This message edited by TrulySad at 8:21 AM, October 4th (Friday)]


Me: Sad, but I will survive

True Love: What I have for my beautiful children.


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