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User Topic: For those of you who did get revenge ...
90Worthless90
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did you feel afterwards? Did you feel better after?

I felt good at first, but then I regretted a few of the things I pulled. There is one I did not regret, though it didn't have any of the lasting effects I hoped...

If someone wants me to share my story of what I did, I will if you do.

I know people think revenge is immature, amongst other things. That's ok. Just stay out of the thread please. I would rather hear from other people who did want to give their WS and OP some suffering.

[This message edited by 90Worthless90 at 10:08 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)]


Me: 23

Him: 29

Together 6 years.

DS: 2yrs

Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"

Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday


Posts: 28 | Registered: Jul 2013
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posting in a general forum about a fairly polarizing topic and asking that people who disagree with your opinion not post may get you a couple of the responses you're looking for but will leave you where you are right now, without perspective.

I'm sorry you're hurting. Hope you feel better.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7096 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
sad34
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ap was a real tool, she actually gave me her email password so I could c my husbands emails. I wondered if it was also her Facebook account password and it was.I found out she had been seeing a bunch of different guys while sleeping with my husband . I cut and pasted the info and face booked and emailed to all her contacts. Did I feel good, I dunno but she sure deserved it!


Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R

Posts: 134 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: canada
Lonelygirl10
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I told the OW's new boyfriend about what she did, thinking that he would break up with her. Nope, he told me that he already knew about it.


29 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

Posts: 731 | Registered: Jul 2013
90Worthless90
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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let's see.

Let's see. First I called her dad's job and told him about his marijuana use on the job. This didn't work. My boyfriend works with her father and intercepted it.

I reported her family for their welfare fraud. I later got an email saying they will look in to it. But I haven't heard from them since. This was in December. I would have heard about an investigation because my partner is still close to them . They could still do an investigation. I don't know how long things like that take.

These are both very true.

After she started taunting me about it. I wrote a lengthy message out to her 'husband' giving every detail I knew. Then I copy pasted the message and sent it to all of his family and friends on facebook.
She was here visiting when she and my partner were doing their dirt. I purposely waited until she went back to CT to do this, as she has no family of friends there. There was a lot of drama. My partner and her managed to convince him at that moment it wasn't true.... But He kicked her out a week or so later. They continued the affair when she came back and they eventually got back together...


Me: 23

Him: 29

Together 6 years.

DS: 2yrs

Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"

Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday


Posts: 28 | Registered: Jul 2013
TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was four months pregnant with baby #4 when I discovered my now XWH had been having affairs. I tried to work it out, and ended up pregnant again. During that 5th pregnancy, I convinced him to get it snipped, because I thought five children was a perfect amount.

My real reason was because I didn't see him changing and knew I wanted to finally leave. I didnt want him remarrying and having some young chick popping a baby out and taking his paycheck, and my children never seeing anything. Waited two more years, and then kicked him out.

Sure enough he went and married a woman 19 years younger. She's got him running around to fertility clinics to see what they can do. I was no idiot. When he went in to have it snipped, I made sure it wasn't just a snip. It was one where they actually removed an inch. There would be no way he could have it reversed.

I have no regrets, and my children are having a better childhood for it.

[This message edited by TrulySad at 8:21 AM, October 4th (Friday)]


Me: WGF
Him: WBF
Together two years DD Feb. 2013
I think we are R??? Time will tell

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