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User Topic: She's going to Cuba?
Pass
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For a frigging week over the xmas holidays. She told me that she wouldn't be able to afford it but she's not paying for it. She didn't volunteer who is paying, and I didn't ask (that's progress, y'all!).

Wow, man, I wish my genitalia could earn me a trip to someplace warm!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1346 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's SUCH a drama queen, this one. It would so be enough for her to just tell you she's going out of town if it impacts her time with the kids at all. But no. She just oozes insecurity and it's so transparent as to why she felt the need to discuss the fact that she's not paying for this expensive trip herself. She wanted so badly for you to ask.

Good for you for not taking her bait. She's so juvenile and mean. Pass, you've surpassed her in class and maturity by miles.


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ExWH - "that one"
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You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a bitch. And ridiculously insecure.

For some reason, I envision her trying to break up ex-shat and stripper whore...hilarity obviously ensues. I don't know...something about the way you describe her makes me lump her straight in with stripper-whore. Not sure who that is unkinder to, the princess or stripper whore.


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Posts: 4179 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, looking back, according to her reports, she has never been without a man. When I was with her, I told her every day how much I loved her and how beautiful I thought she was. We read that Love Languages book, and it turns out that's her language (mine too, but I received nothing). Since she sure as hell isn't getting from me now, she desperately needs to find it elsewhere.

I've been spending a lot of time looking back, and my vision is 20/20 now. I have a long list of red flags I'll be watching for in future relationships!

And tesla, she deserves to be lumped in with stripper-whore. I don't think we're being unkind to either of them by speaking the truth!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1346 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forgot to mention, when she gave me this little tidbit of news about her trip, it didn't upset me: I didn't sob; I didn't gasp; I didn't get that empty feeling in my chest.

I just thought of whoever is taking her with the mantra a friend gave me: "Poor bastard".


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1346 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
justastatistic
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Missed an opportunity. When she volunteered that she wasn't paying for it, should have said "Sure you are....just not with money."

Posts: 16 | Registered: Jul 2012
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn it, justastatistic! Where were you when I needed you?


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1346 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Sure you are....just not with money."

It IS the oldest profession...

Far out, I'd rather sew it up.


Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

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