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User Topic: Did you get a yeast infection?
momwith2boys
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got a yeast infection after d-day 1. Never had one in my whole life. I went to the doctor and got meds but it kept coming back. FWS took affair underground. I finally got rid of it after affair ended and by taking meds again. Do you think that he was passing it back to me when he was with her?


Me BW 34
husband 34
Married 9 years, together 12 years
OW-my so called "friend"
2 boys (6 & 2)
D-day 10/17/2012
D-day2-2/24/2013 told me it was her
D-day3-6/16/2013 found out affair never ended
Working on R

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hopingforhappy
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, but OW told me that she had had several recently, so I should be on the lookout (gee, thanks). Total lie on her part. She was just mad when she found out that my FWH and I had not stopped being intimate a year earlier, as he had so helpfully told her, so she was trying to stick the knife in a little deeper.

He could very well having been passing it back and forth. I am so sorry that you are having to worry about this.

[This message edited by hopingforhappy at 2:00 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)]


Me--BW (56)
Him--FWH (53)--5yr. LTA--OW probably BPD
Married 20 years
DS-18, DD-15
Reconciling--but boy is it hard!

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only infections I have had were when I first started having sex and during/after each A. Apparently w/ 2A I also got bacterial vaginosis. They won't call it an STD but I know the only "new bacteria" introduced to my system was through MrH and xOw2.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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momwith2boys
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. The A is over and I haven't had a yeast infection in over a month (knock on wood). I was just curious in what might have caused it and why it didn't go away. I am sure stress was a factor too.

[This message edited by momwith2boys at 2:06 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)]


Me BW 34
husband 34
Married 9 years, together 12 years
OW-my so called "friend"
2 boys (6 & 2)
D-day 10/17/2012
D-day2-2/24/2013 told me it was her
D-day3-6/16/2013 found out affair never ended
Working on R

Posts: 34 | Registered: Nov 2012
Peaches2013
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Men can have completely asymptomatic yeast infections. It's possible he had it and was giving it back to you over and over again. It's also possible he picked it up from her and was giving it to you over and over again.


Me: BS
Him: WH ONS/short EA
Married 11 years
Together 15 years
2 children

Posts: 64 | Registered: Oct 2013
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even in a relationship where the male is monogomous it can be problematic that they keep giving it back to their partner. As we all know the vajayjay is the perfect environment for growing yeast. In addition to being on any type of antibiotic will make you more susceptible.

Have your H use monistat cream on his wanker nightly for a week -10 days, that will rid him of any residual if he has it. But yes if she was a chronic carrier, then he could have been giving it to you unknowingly. I certainly hope you have had all other manner of std testing. If not please do.

((((and strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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AML04
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got my first yeast infection in years while the A was going on. Since it's stopped I've had two more??? We have been HB so now I wonder if H had one but it's asymptomatic? Interesting thought.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 870 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I finally stopped surrendering the pink to STBX, I stopped getting any kind of problems down there, either in the vajayjay or bladder. It's lovely to walk around with a sparkling clean nether region!

So yes, my guess would be that your beloved was reinfecting you.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got HPV, bacterial infections, and yeast infections after his affairs. In fact, after the second affair, I quizzed him relentlessly because I had an infection. Like you, I never had them either except for those times.


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


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alphakitte
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup! And worse!


------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

Posts: 349 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: 3 klicks north of Ambiguous
mightsurvive
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I infrequently got them before and after A but had many during his A


BW 37-me
WH 40
Kids
Dday Dec 2011
Reconciling

Posts: 48 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: midwest
64fleet
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She did, and claimed it had nothing w/her AP, 'cause they didn't have sex.

I still don't buy it, six yrs later.


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Posts: 5397 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: deliverance land
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only two I have ever had were during his affair.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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HormonalWoman
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes! I had two close together after he returned from his trip where he had his affair. Never had one in the previous 27 years of my life!

Difficult to prove where it came from though


Together 14 yrs
BW - Me
WH - Him
3 Children
DD 20th June 2010 actual affair was early 2008 for roughly 10 wks.

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suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Possibly! I have only gotten them while I was newly pregnant or on strong antibiotics. The week after H's first encounter with the OW I ended up with a SEVERE one and had no idea why. Of course H wasn't going to tell me but yeah I'm pretty sure I got it from her


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Once you get a yeast infection, sometimes it is hard for people to get them to go away completely.

He could have been passing it back and forth- or he could have gotten it from you and not gotten treated and then kept giving it to you. That happens all the time- it is hard to tell.

Stress can also be a factor.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 840 | Registered: Jan 2013
cl131716
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did but I was also pregnant at the time and as far as I know Ws' A was never a PA.

Now that I think about it though it did clear up after I confronted Ws. I had one nearly the entire time I was pregnant. Hmmmm.....


Me BS 31
Him WS 34 Trying4change
Together 3 years, married for one
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
"A clear and innocent conscience fears nothing."

Posts: 935 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
PrincessPeach06
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes and he used a condom! I never get them either but have been fine ever since.


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
JustWow
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup, and worse. OW was a walking petri dish of infections, quite charming....


BW - Reconciling

edited for typos (I always have to!)


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. Absolutely. I've only ever had one once before when I was on antibiotics. So, when I developed a recurrent yeast infection for no apparent reason, I got very freaked out. Of course, I thought that I must be developing Type II diabetes-- not that my husband was sleeping with another woman without using protection and screwing up my natural balance.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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