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User Topic: Did I push or ask for too much???
confused52204
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been about a year since shit hit the fan. Since march that I found out just how big the situation was. I'm a talker...I've been to IC as this is the 2nd man to cheat. I talk alot I want to talk everything out. Since march I obviously kept digging to c what I would find. This happened from march 2010 to march 2012. We r not married. Have been together about 4 yrs. I find it very hard to believe him bc he has lied so much. Everything was going good so I thought then last week I asked to check credit card. I found he charged freind finder in nov 2011. That is as far back as the records went do obviously he lied about it. Said he never made that charge. Now things r shot again. He says just drop it and he is over talking about it! Wtf do I do now!

Posts: 526 | Registered: Nov 2007
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What do you think you should do? What do you want to do? What advice do you want to receive?

I ask because it seems to me the answer to your Q is pretty obvious.

Asking for honesty isn't asking for too much. It's the minimum, IMO.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10374 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
ladies_first
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Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been to IC as this is the 2nd man to cheat.
You survived infidelity in 2007. After that first experience, what did establish as personal dealbreaker(s)?


"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

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confused52204
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back then I was young now I'm older and feel hell is there anyone good out there? Does everyone lie? Could he possibly b telling the truth??

Posts: 526 | Registered: Nov 2007
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Could he possibly b telling the truth??

You know the answer to this question already. You just don't want to accept it.


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13809 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
confused52204
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back then I was young now I'm older and feel hell is there anyone good out there? Does everyone lie? Could he possibly b telling the truth??

Posts: 526 | Registered: Nov 2007
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