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User Topic: Were your WS and AP "committed"?
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH told me that his AP actually acted pissed off at him that we were still sleeping together. She wanted him to leave me and even though he told her from the get go that it was only to be a one time thing (ahhh how sweet of him to only want it once from her) that he would never leave me. They ended up sleeping together several times the next two times they saw each other

She wanted more commitment, I guess that with her fiance out of town three weeks a month she thought she was being committed to my H. She also told him that she loved him. So tell me that if she loved him soooo much then why after her fiance found out (thanks to me), after WH broke it off with her, did she beg him to stay and is still planning their wedding?

Im convinced that my H is not the only man that slut was sleeping with or has slept with outside of her relationship with her fiance.

WH says they didn't make any plans. I want to believe that. I saw the messages he sent her that said he wasn't leaving me and loved me, saw them the night I found all their messages in his phone. He was just scared she would tell me so that's why he went back the 2nd and 3rd time....what a sweetheart to try and 'protect' my feelings. He kept sleeping with her so I wouldn't get hurt...awwww

[This message edited by suposd2btheonly1 at 9:43 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)]

Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H twirled around 3 times saying, "I divorce her," so that thankfully freed them up to be exclusive.

And after Dday and it was all out in the open, he certainly didn't want to betray her further by sleeping with me.

Rings? Yup, she gave him all sorts of pix from which to choose...

Me: The faithful one
Him: WS
4 great kids
Married 28 years, together 36
D-Day: April 1, 2006 (yep, April Fool's Day...)
Aaaaaas Yoooouuu Wiiiiiish...

Posts: 650 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Here & There
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha! My ws PROPOSED to ow! Without telling her he's M! It took her nearly a year to investigate and figure out he's a lying POS. Heaven knows how HE thought it would all turn out ok. Guess it was a case of say whatever is necessary to keep getting the action.

Me: BS, 50
Him: WH, 50, serial cheater and compulsive liar, possible SA and NPD
Married 17 years, together 26
3 kids: 10, 13, and 15
Was afraid to confront while overseas, now home safely and can decide next step

Posts: 251 | Registered: Nov 2012
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The AP throught they were. I mean after all they were engaged and he gave her a ring. She outed him thinking that after 2years he would leave me for her or I would leave him and she could just move right in. She was so mad to find out that he was cheating on her with "Me, his wife!!!" I told her if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you.

He still didn't leave me, but kept her hanging on for another year when they took it underground and she finally outed him again. The facts were is she was nothing but a cumdumpster for him and he didn't want to give that up. I will never figure out what people that carry on LTA's are even thinking.

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

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