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User Topic: I got a [court] date!!!!!!!!!!!
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just have to share that after two years of unsuccessfully trying to divorce my insane NPD SA STBX, including a half dozen court appearances, a parenting evaluation, a custody battle, and criminal attorneys . . .

I finally have a final court date for my divorce!!!!!

It's early in the year. The judge put aside three full days for it. Please God, let me finally be divorced early in the new year!!!!!


Posts: 1667 | Registered: Oct 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yipee!!!!!!!!!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9529 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
trebleclef
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Default  Posted: 2:21 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY and HALLELUJAH!


True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 2:22 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

3 days???? Holy crap.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7939 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yes, a three-day trial. About a year ago, it was going to be a two-day trial. The judge reviewed everything and determined it will now be three days.

But then I'm hoping and praying that I'll finally be divorced. It will be a 2 1/2 year divorce.


Posts: 1667 | Registered: Oct 2011
cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah!!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4113 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Strength your way


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Choosing,

I'm glad to hear this! I hope that things go smoothly for you until then!!

My trial was predicted to be five days. I had a lot of evidence to present!

We settled on the eave of the trial.


Posts: 1242 | Registered: Aug 2010
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Compartmented. I am really, really hoping that the same thing will happen to me (settling at the 11th hour).

We're going back to depose STBX again (sigh). And OW/SA, because STBX now claims he might marry her, which means my children might be exposed to her. She does this stuff in her home, with her child sleeping.

I could just die. I just want it all over with.

I can't believe your trial was supposed to be five days. That's one for the record books!

-Hope


Posts: 1667 | Registered: Oct 2011
dmari
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay Yay Yay Yay!! I'm so happy for you!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so glad for you to finally have a court date!!!! I remember my 2.5yr D from XWH#1 and how free I felt when it was finally over. It was like the sun could finally shine again without a constant dark cloud hanging over my head everyday. I still spent the next 5yrs paying off credit cards for the attorney's fees, but it was well worth it in the end to finally be free of him. I hope everything comes out in your favor.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't believe your trial was supposed to be five days

It was going to be a jury trial, so selecting them would take a day. We wanted to make sure we had jurors who could handle the evidence without throwing up.


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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still spent the next 5yrs paying off credit cards for the attorney's fees, but it was well worth it in the end to finally be free of him.

I'll be a long time paying it all off. I write "freedom" in the reason for the checks. It's worth it.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We wanted to make sure we had jurors who could handle the evidence without throwing up.

O. M. G.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9529 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

***(((Compartmented)))***

I didn't know that. Thank God you got away. And thanks for the encouragement, as always.


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