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User Topic: Going to see the Kids
Gr8Panoz
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBXWW has not been allowing me to see the kids really at all. I've had one official visit in the month we've been apart. I have lots of evidence of the cancelled or ignored requests to see the kids.

So the kids went to the dentist today and got beat up pretty good apparently. She offered to let me see them but they're too sore to go anywhere so I have to go to the MIL's where she is staying to see them. I'd rather slam my finders in the door but I want to see the kids and I'm sure she's hoping I don't show so she can say she tried but I didn't.

Not really much advice to give. I'm going and I am going to hate it. I don't want to see her and I damn well don't want to see her mom and family.

So there it is. Wish me luck!


Me: 31 BS
Her: 28 STBXW
Kids: 5 & 7
DDay 8-24-13
Divorce started: 9-5-13
Divorce Final: ?

Posts: 26 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Idaho
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Kids)))

I hope they feel better from the dentist apt.


Posts: 36058 | Registered: Mar 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did it go? How are they feeling?

Posts: 36058 | Registered: Mar 2011
Gr8Panoz
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was awkward as hell. They both seemed to be doing really well considering the amount of work they had done. Couple extractions and a couple crowns. She wandered in and out a couple times. The kids weren't used to the idea I didn't want to move around the house.

Its really sad. Every time I see my 7 yr old she tries to get her mother and I to sit down and talk. And my 5 yr old cries every time I leave.


Me: 31 BS
Her: 28 STBXW
Kids: 5 & 7
DDay 8-24-13
Divorce started: 9-5-13
Divorce Final: ?

Posts: 26 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Idaho
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So SHE cheated on YOU, and she's not allowing YOU to see the kids. What exactly is she punishing YOU for?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3429 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Gr8Panoz)))

I'm glad they are feeling ok after the dental work.

If she is not letting you see your children, have you contacted your lawyer? Is there a visitation schedule in place through the courts? You have a right to see your children. I'm sorry it was awkward.


Posts: 36058 | Registered: Mar 2011
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does her family know that she is a cheater??

I hope you have a great lawyer to fight this. She is just horrible. WH is her reason for keeping you for seeing your kids?


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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