Our faults are all so strikingly similar- it makes me feel better about myself!
1. You didn't allow "me to be me" (I guess if a grown man acting like a 15 year old boy is "him" - then I am unreasonable.)
2. Trying to control who he could be friends with- when I asked him to discontinue contact with his OW.
3. Our whole marriage was a "sexual sahara". Ouch! I really tried to fulfill his needs. Even when I had 7 children and was working full time and doing all the house and child care.
4. Only caring about money because in my divorce papers I asked for child support and alimony. I suppose I should not expect anything after 32 years of marriage. (Can you call years of his double life, secrets, lies and cheating a marriage?)
Etc, etc, etc, etc,