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User Topic: Keep your fingers crossed......
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cat has been sick. STBX has been around the house to care for her. I got a text this week. To paraphrase: "I don't want to put you out but I miss having a place to call home. Can you take a weekend and go see your parents so I can be around the house for a while?" She's living in an apartment with her AP and his roommates. Party central, basically living like a college student ( she will be 40 next year ). It's beginning to wear on her. Instead of sending back "you should have thought of that before you fucked another guy" I took the opportunity to put the hard sell on her to refinance the house and take it over. I broke down the numbers, advised her that she would need a co signer and likely a roommate. (Big house, 2200 sf, could be there with roommate for days and not see them). I told her she could have everything in the house, garage and shed minus a few personal and family items. All I want is 4,000, cash and her to assume half the credit card debt. She went for it. She talked to her parents about co signing ( they know it's over, just not why ) and they seemed agreeable. She gets her house, I get cash to start over and out of debt completely. The thought of ending this part of this nightmare makes me dizzy with happiness. Cash, debt free, moving to the beach 800 miles away from this idiot. Please wish me luck, karma, prayers, good vibes, whatever your thing is. I can see light...........


D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhh I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you! It sounds like the timing was perfect. I hope this makes you one BIG step closer to your new beginning! Good luck!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
I FINALLY GOT A COURT DATE: 5/29/14!!

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well played friend. Cool heads prevail.

Fingers and toes crossed!!


Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Posts: 4518 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fingers crossed.




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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LUCK!!!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3233 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: ATX
vivere
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Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Luck. I hope everything runs smoothly for you, hiccup free.

The thought of ending this part of this nightmare makes me dizzy with happiness.

^^^This is lovely!


You are responsible for your own happiness :)

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