Wow. No cards, no gifts, no calls.
Dd is elementary age, so this is big to her.
I just don't get why you would choose not to have a relationship with your grandkids? Especially when they are really cool kids :-)
their loss.... I'm not hurt, I know what a holes my ILS are, but I feel bad for dd. Mil told her she was going to come visit on her bday. Well, that fell thru, but not even a call?