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User Topic: Just had to post this - Warning will make you cry
broken0912
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard this on the radio today, and have been feeling it all day. Michael Martin Murphy sung it way back when.


"What's Forever For"

I've been looking at people
And how they change with the times
And lately all I've been seeing are people
Throwing love away and losing their minds

Or maybe it's me that's gone crazy
'Cause I can't understand why
All these people keep hurting each other
When good love is so hard to come by

So what's the glory in leaving
Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore
And if love never lasts forever
Tell me what's forever for

I've been listening to people
And they say love is the key
And it's not my way to let them lead me astray
It's only that I want to believe

But I see love-hungry people
Trying their best to survive
While in their hands is a dying romance
And they're not even trying to keep it alive

So what's the glory in leaving
Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore
And if love never lasts forever
Tell me what's forever for


BS 49
WS 61
OW 31 now - 23-24 when it began
dday-9/4/12
M 13+ together 16
HIS DC: D-33,S-25,S-22
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jul 2013
kansas1968
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Member # 32214
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, it makes me cry.


Me - BS
Him - FWS
DD - December 14, 2010
Married 43 years 1/14/2011
Affair lasted 7+ years
Affair had been over for 2 years before I found out. OW sent me a letter.

Posts: 1276 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Kansas
RightTrack
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Member # 36976
Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for posting that. I love that song, I've never stopped and looked at all the lyrics though.

Posts: 596 | Registered: Sep 2012
LostMySoulMate1
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Member # 31833
Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wow


ME:BW42 HIM:WS40 MARRIED19years 2Teens DdayFeb2009.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Australia
broken0912
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Member # 39780
Default  Posted: 3:02 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know, right? I had never listened to the words, really, either, but they hit me pretty hard today. Hoping for something better tomorrow. ((((hugs to all))))


BS 49
WS 61
OW 31 now - 23-24 when it began
dday-9/4/12
M 13+ together 16
HIS DC: D-33,S-25,S-22
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jul 2013
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 4:23 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember that song but it didnt affect me then...now its different though


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4695 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
TheRealDeal
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Member # 39560
Default  Posted: 5:01 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Always liked the song but it has a totally different meaning to me now, too


Me: 45, him: 53
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
cantaccept
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Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 5:04 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it so true how differently we now see everything?

All of these things in life that before did not have that much of an effect on our hearts and minds.

Now, just about every song, every poem, every movie, seems to have so much more meaning, tugs on the emotions so strongly.

"forever and a day", that is what h always said to me, signed his cards to me. It breaks my heart. I can never have that back, it is gone forever. If I am feeling positive I guess I could say, forever starts today.

Unfortunately the negative days still outweigh the positive. Time, right???


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

divorcing


Posts: 1233 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. It is a sad song. I have a few of my own that make me cry everytime I hear them. We had a special song that spoke of how much we loved each other and we danced to it on our wedding day. A couple of years ago, I surprised my WH#2 one night and got on a stage and sang the song to him, he had tears in his eyes and told me how much he loved me and yada, yada, yada. Come to find out he was in a LTA at the time. The song makes me sob now because what I thought we had wasn't real and he was lying to me. I now think that love is just a fantasy fairytale. I guess I feel that way because I have lived for the last 30+ years with two cheaters.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
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