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User Topic: Northern Cal - first rain of the season
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After a long hot dry summer as usual it has been raining here in the foothills east of Chico for the last 8 hours. A real soak-in-the-ground rain. It feels so good. The ground was so dry it crunched like styrofoam when you walked on it and the danger of wildfires was huge.

I am breathing a sigh of relief for this welcome change of season.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5856 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still no 'like' button??

It's so nice to be back in an area that gets regular rain. I'm sure I'll change my tune in a few months but I'm liking it now.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20273 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It rained all the way over to the eastern Sierras. Supposed to snow at the lake tonight. Feeling kind of bad for the iron man folks! Lol

Innerlight, I am a Chico grad.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is still raining in Sacramento! Hubby and I planned to veg today and the rain sealed the deal!
We've each got a huge bowl of popcorn and are about to pop in another movie. Marathon day!!!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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Posts: 6520 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
gma56
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

People in the SF Bay Area forget how to drive in rain !! DSS had to drive from San Jose to Palo Alto. It is about 25 min from his house on the 280. He said there was 4 accidents on the side of road !


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

People in the SF Bay Area forget how to drive in rain !!

OMG SERIOUSLY. One drop and all hell breaks loose. It's bananas.


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Posts: 17787 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think all those months w/o rain allows oil to accumulate on the road, and then it gets slick w rain. And yes, people don't slow down in the Bay Area for rain.

SAZ, I grew up in NY State, lived in New England and the Catskills before California and so I'm used to rain in the summer and all those huge lush deciduous leaved trees. I even liked the cold northeastern winters, it's just the late springs that are hard. Winter seemed to go so long and when the warm and green finally came everyone was ecstatic.

The first rain here is like that feeling for spring back east to me.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm SO HAPPY! I love the smell of wet dirt after the summer dust!

I'm going to go volunteer to do some trail maintenance, and then take my wonder dog for a little mountain bike ride.

NOTHING BETTER!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1220 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unlike roads, the first rain makes the trails super TACKY!

Love me some nice traction on my bike ride through the redwoods. Can you say ZOOM!?


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1220 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
AnnieOakley
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup, I opted to stay in myself.

Today is so clear and picture perfect!


Me= BS, 45
Him=WH, 46
M=18+,T=21+
dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a recent work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced.
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Posts: 1262 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: West
click4it
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never leave my car windows open and of course on Saturday morning I left them down and down came the pouring rain. luckily it was straight rain so my seats got wet and but too much. next was sunny as heck and you never knew it had rained.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the first rain of the season. It rained hard down here on the SF coast. DDs and I stayed in all day, lit a fire and candles and watched repeats of Bones and Criminal Minds. Wonderful day.


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Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same here in the Pacific NW. First rains are lovely, everything was pretty parched.

I love that it clears up for the farmer's markets though.

Snuggling up to my IPad, history readings, Breaking Bad and a bottle of Yellowtail.

*bliss*


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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