if I haven't killed myself it's because of him. Before this relationship, I was with an abusive man, and now WS says the last time he saw me this sad was at that time.
The combination of a new baby, all you've been through, & the way your feeling I hope your seeking help. I'm not big on meds, but possibly antidepressants?
He suggested therapy and we were already there Wed; she said we both looked very much in love and we didn't really need therapy together, HE needed it, and she just wanted to see if I'm ok.
[This message edited by soconfusednow at 12:49 PM, September 20th (Friday)]
Sorry for the circumstances that brought you here, but I'm glad you found us.
I agree with soconfusednow, perhaps it would be wise into looking into another therapist. People can look happy on the outside, but it's hard to tell what they are going through internally without scratching through the surface. That's what a good IC (individual counselor) is all about.
Stick around here and keep posting. You'll find a great deal of support and advice here from so many people who have been through this and who are also currently going through this.