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User Topic: Betrayed Men - Part 14
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sounds just like the type of sex my wife had with her AP

Sorry Tred! Didn't mean to bring out the hurt there man. Didn't think about it that way when I was typing that out. Just thinking about how bland it is for me a lot of times now without the emotion.

I do think it also leads back to RB's point though. Makes us of think what were we missing out on. How come poser gets the freaky and I don't?


ETA*****

TURNING OUT THE DAMN LIGHTS!!!!

[This message edited by DefiledRage at 1:13 PM, October 11th (Friday)]


Me:35 WW:34 M:13yrs
3 young children
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 427 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh no WB, t-minus 18 and counting


Me:35 WW:34 M:13yrs
3 young children
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 427 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ready to move!


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DR, no worries. I admit that pre DDay our sex was bland - usually due to scheduling, life, kids, work, that kind of shit. But when we had the opportunity (such as a kid free night) it was all kinds of awesome. That was good enough for me. I didn't realize it wasn't good enough for her so she had to go out and get the best stud she could lure on AM to really give her a good seeing to. It's coming up on DDay for me, this time of year really triggers me. There's really no good time, her AM experience lasted for 20 months so there is no day during the year that wasn't an affair day, but this is when she started her biweekly sessions with Mr. Amazing. I was hoping I'd be further along at almost two years out, but I'm a slow healer I guess.

WTF, in no time this will just be back in the archive and we'll be ooohing and aaahhhing over WB's awesomeness and meme skills.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Razor
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Cannibal.
Never had a problem with ED but little Razor would some times loose interest part way through the act.

All it took for that to happen was my mind to wander to her LTA. The message *OM was here* would flash in my mind like the old *Kilroy was here* signs from the last world war. When that would happen things would deflate if you get my drift. At least once I ended up crying as the act fell apart.

Basically this shit can really fuck with your head. And with everything being connected all kinds of physical stuff can happen.

The good news is that most of it will pass.

For me at least *intimacy* will never be that intimate again. Of course being a guy sex is still sex and sex is great. But sex is all it is.

If your GF is not supportive and understanding of the situation she caused and put you in I suggest that you consider dumping her and finding a new GF.

Seriously. Since you are not M and if there are no kids involved and if your finances are not too intertwined I think you should at least consider moving on.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was hoping I'd be further along at almost two years out, but I'm a slow healer I guess

I disagree. I think you have come a long way.

And yes....soon this thread will be history........soon.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One more post closer to history.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really?


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Friday night is a good night for the thread to flip. No real sports on to watch, it's pissing down rain here, so might as well sit back, have a couple of cold ones, and watch the hilarity ensue. Probably get a good fire going.

WB, might as well let the mods know now that the Menz 14 is about to shutter.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

is it really time to start spamming the thread?


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will notify the mods......

What? Me? Spam a thread?


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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Razor
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cannibal if your reading this what everyone is talking about is that threads have a limit of 1000 posts. When that limit is hit we have to beg and plead the admins to add another one for us to jabber in.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I for one will NOT be responsible for spamming the thread just so we can get to BM15. Just saying.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good attitude Tred.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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doubleboggy
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me either


I have became what I have beheld and am content that I have done right. - Elliot Ness

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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SDWB, I would certainly never make such a blatant accusation.

Tred, sorry it's getting to be that time of year. 2 to 5 years, easy to say, awful to go through.

sending strength, going to try to squeeze a quick 9 in before the rain hits here.


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2071 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

forgot to ask, who's turning the lights out this time?


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2071 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
doubleboggy
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I have became what I have beheld and am content that I have done right. - Elliot Ness

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

going to try to squeeze a quick 9 in before the rain hits here

Now that hurts...we have small rivers in the fairway right now. I drive by the club every morning on my way to work, past a beautiful sloping par 5. It's currently bisected and trisected by channels of water.

I got the lights...

[This message edited by Tred at 12:55 PM, October 11th (Friday)]


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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