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User Topic: SI New Features - Feedback Please
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

please include the option to turn it off (or limit who can chat with us)...

Oh yes, definitely this. If there was a chat feature or even one that just showed us as on the site to other users, I would stop logging in when I was on SI.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The chat feature will never happen...trust us


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198255 | Registered: May 2002
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Image free option when in SImplicity


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Posts: 52586 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
summerain
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I personally, vote against a 'like feature'. I would hate posts to turn into a popularity contest or for the sensitive members on SI to feel...? unappreciated?

I don't know just a thought.


OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 818 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh shit, I got it. A fucking muppet icon. Gene the muppet.


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Posts: 7476 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some threads get ridiculously long and it would be nice to be able to click on the 'view recent posts' and be automatically directed to the end of the thread.....

I'm not a fan of the *like* button option because I think it would decrease responses to posts. Too lazy-seeming to me....

- Search Feature -- I see pros/cons to this feature. Would the search option only be available to members? By subject matter -- maybe ok. By username -- no.
- "Buddy" Feature-- I don't know what this is. Wouldn't it be similar to the *follow* feature that you just rolled out?
- Chat room -- nope. Against this also. My worry is that people will get so caught up in *chatting* with the people that they are already familiar with, that *attendance* on the board will suffer.
- Like button-- No. I think this will limit actual responses and encourage *lazy posting*.
- Sending multiple PM's -- this is something to consider......
- Auto-redirect to your last post after you login -- meh. <profile><view recent posts>.
- New Icons - clapping hands -- sure. Icons are good. How about an icon that indicates a head-scratching, WTF attitude?
- link to Simplicity from the profiles of platinum members instead of having to go back to the forum page -- I apparently don't use Simplicity enough because I have no idea what you are talking about......
- a "Favorites" button for certain threads. -- isn't this already done through the Healing Library articles, the bulls-eye icon, the sticky posts, and the *bumping* by members?
- An image button to go along with the bold, italic and quotes -- huh? No idea what you are talking about here.
- Heart icon for new post that takes you to the latest post on that thread. -- Seems redundant. There's already an indication of a *new* post....although this might tie-in to my request of being directed to the *end* of the thread.....
-Chocolate and wine for everyone -- I'm not a big fan of wine.
- Shoulder rub for Rebreather -- did you put this in here to make sure that we were reading it all??? Yes. RB deserves shoulder rubs.
- Ability to insert icons in the middle of the post -- omg. Yes. Put the darn icon where my cursor is, please.
- Ability to see if someone has posted after you. -- this is remediated if you take me to MY last post on the thread, right?
- Formatting buttons on the edit screen post -- this would be helpful, but I see it as a 'low priority' thing....
- Gender of person starting a thread. -- isn't this already in place? And can't it typically be garnered by actually reading the post if the username doesn't indicate a gender? If you mean putting the gender on the Main Forum page, then no. I consider that low priority.
- Preview Post option before posting. -- Another 'low priority' issue for me. Why do I have to 'preview' it when I can just re-read it before I post it?
- An option to hide posts from certain posters -- isn't this already in place with the Block feature?
- Page navigation on both the top and bottom of a thread -- (I feel redundant, but..) isn't this also already in place? If I'm near the top of the page then I can cursor left to redirect/post and if I'm at the bottom I can cursor middle to leave (or cursor right to post).....
- posts exempt from searching? Say like a checkbox that says "Allow posts to be included in global searches" --- I'm not a fan of global searches.....
- Image free option when in SImplicity -- I don't navigate the site through Simplicity very often....but aren't the images sometimes where the most fun is garnered?


eta: If the chat feature is "never gonna happen", then why was it on the list?

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 10:41 PM, September 17th (Tuesday)]


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In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Easier way to post pictures
"Skins" for mobile devices?
How about an android and apple app- woo!
Some sort of search function. I love you guys but I do get tired of typing the same stuff about STDs and antidepressants/antianxiolytic drugs. I'd be thrilled to have that stuff in the healing library and could update it every three months for medical changes.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
nuance
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gender of OP on the thread list so you know before you click on it.


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Posts: 1216 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: California
aesir
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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh shit, I got it. A fucking muppet icon. Gene the muppet.
I assume that is one of the lesser muppets.

Chat feature, cool but bad idea, or good idea it is never happening... All things considered, and mindful of some of the history here, yeah I'm glad it won't happen.

Page navigation at top of page as well, how could I have left out my number one wish for the past forever.

As for like buttons, I am not on any social media, but I can seriously see it leading to people feeling neglected, or lazy responses with less effort than the hugs posts, and some really unfortunate unintended consequences after a tragedy.

WS and AP were having sex in our bed and my sweet little pet muffin jumped into bed with them just as they frantically rolled over. Now my dear little muffin who has been my faithful companion since college has been crushed to death and I am just heartbroken.

- 47 People like this.


Not the sort of thing we want to see I think.

Perhaps a method for really informative threads on a topic to be nominated / voted for inclusion in the healing library or some sort of notable thread archive that does not disappear.

An answer about what does happen if someone with platinum posts a reply to a thread that is otherwise archived. Does it get bumped back up? Is the reply rejected? Does it create a paradox in the space time continuum?

[This message edited by aesir at 12:23 AM, September 18th (Wednesday)]


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:17 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Page navigation at the top and bottom of a thread.

Redirect to your post once you click submit message.

Being able to add a smilie to the middle of a post would be awesome.

Thank you for this place and all you do to keep us safe.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 4:58 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't like the idea of a chat room or a like button but I would like to see when someone posts after I post on a thread instead of searching for them all. I don't like to post to someone and then fail to follow up when I lose the thread.

A clapping icon would be great as would a hug one ?


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Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone!! We really appreciate all the feedback and ideas

I'm locking this up for now


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My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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