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User Topic: SI New Features - Feedback Please
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A way to exempt yourself from any chat feature that you don't have to reset every time you login.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6750 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

An option to hide posts from certain posters so everybody can turn me off.

Cyrillic and wingdings font!

Custom forum skins?


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7495 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not a huge fan of the chat or the search functions. Anonymity for some new users is crucial. Gives them the ability to decide just how much to offer on themselves. Allowing the OM or OW to use search terms in an effort to find out if the have been discovered is a bad idea for some betrayed. I think it would keep people from being honest about their circumstances. Posts would become more generalized, editing out the details in fear of being found. If I had known that my posts could be searched that way I would have never posted at first, and would still be languishing by myself. SI is a safe haven for me to express pain, and allows me to have candid conversations that I could not have with my if reconciliation is a possibility. Not fearing my WW searching my posts, allows me to work out the negative emotions here and have constructive positive talks with her. What did I say about rambling?

Someone already mentioned this but I tend to log out, then come back start a long rambling post, only to have it wiped away when I have to log back in. A login page that takes me back to the post page while keeping what had been previously typed would be great.

[This message edited by DefiledRage at 6:54 PM, September 17th (Tuesday)]


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 570 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did SG just ask for custom foreskins?

'Cuz that's fuckin' brilliant.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6750 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
carnelian
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

An option to hide posts from certain posters so everybody can turn me off.

Seconded! Wait, that sounds like I'm talking about the above poster when I'm talking about myself!

[This message edited by carnelian at 6:50 PM, September 17th (Tuesday)]


What are you going to do when he leaves you?

Posts: 564 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Europe
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Page navigation on both the top and bottom of a thread.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For optimum anonymity, request a username change to The.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6750 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Page navigation on both the top and bottom of a thread (so I don't have to scroll down to the bottom of the page to navigate the pages).

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 6:53 PM, September 17th (Tuesday)]


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5696 | Registered: Aug 2007
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A spider icon to warn the arachnophobic....


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1134 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love this place but I would selfishly like to see a 'Preview Post' option before you click "Submit Message" to see what's about to be posted and to better check for typo's or incorrect This would help me (at least) prevent editing posts afterwards.


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm no doubt exposing my woeful lack of computer/programming/whatever (see, it's so bad I don't even know the category) knowledge, but one thing I know nearly caused a catastrophe a time or two for me early into all this was the 'skins'.

The skins are great! The problem is if you're using a skin to go semi-incognito in a public area of the house, and need to log-out in a hurry (someone coming over to your computer, for instance), the screen reverts to the regular SI screen. So you're totally busted.

I don't know if there's any way at all for the skin to remain if you log out, or perhaps even if you log out it automatically closes the window, but I know that would've really helped me.


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3895 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you create a chat feature, please include the option to turn it off (or limit who can chat with us)... some of us lurk here way more often than we want everyone to see.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13812 | Registered: Jul 2011
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I second JustDone's preview idea...I can't catch my own mistakes until I post, for some reason.


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3895 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ps - tags might also help if you do the search feature.

Another forum I used to be on has a "post anonymous" option where you can post without linking your name to it. It's limited to x number of posts per year per member or something like that, to limit abuse. Not sure if it would really be helpful here though.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A glitterbomb button.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17591 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
unfound
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Free kitteh for every 5000 posts!

Jeopardy theme plays every time you post "Mod Please?"

Pictures option under your user name?

unfound
member
member#

maybe?

I think I like the search idea, but with criteria for access like I-tips.

Personally, I'm happy with what we have now, but would at the least need instructions, simple instructions on how to use any new features .



ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14861 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love you just the way you are.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20327 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unfound, That's just how I pictured you looking

Sad, Nothing like a young Billy Joel at the piano to get your message across .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38213 | Registered: Sep 2007
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A spider icon to warn the arachnophobic....

I would probably smash my monitor twice a month.


If there's a search option could there also be an option to make posts exempt from searching? Say like a checkbox that says "Allow posts to be included in global searches" or something. That kinda sounds like a ton of work.

Also I thought about custom foreskins but I was worried someone might get snippy.


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7495 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
tryin2havefaith
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

While we are renovating, can we put a gym in back with a few dozen punching bags


ME- BS
HIM- WS
DDay 1/2011
4 - 6 months of TT'ing
Fully R'd
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