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User Topic: SI New Features - Feedback Please
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes when I reread a post before I submit it, I decide I want to add a smiley (because you can never have enough smileys! )

If I try to insert it in the middle of the post, it automatically posts at the end.

Is there a way to change that?

Thank you very much!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 36689 | Registered: Sep 2007
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Meh, wrong thread. lol

[This message edited by Rebreather at 4:16 PM, September 17th (Tuesday)]


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6311 | Registered: Jan 2011
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like

Favorite Button
Search Feature

and

Chocoloate and wine for everyone.

That being said, I also love the site just the way it is. It is incredibly helpful and informative!


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
Alex CR
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Chocolate and wine for everyone

Would agree with authenticnow regarding the posting of smileys....I usually copy and cut, add the smiley and then re-paste the remaining post... and going automatically to the latest post on the thread would be nice.

But all in all, if you didn't change anything SI is still the best therapy around 'cause all the people here make it great.....


BS Me 61
WS Him 62
Married 33
Together 40
DD 11/16/09
The future looks good....

Posts: 1642 | Registered: Mar 2010
TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe a way to only send and receive private messages to the same sex? Given the issue we all are dealing with, it's a given that we shouldn't be having any private communication with the opposite sex.


Me: Done with his bullshit and getting stronger day by day

Posts: 424 | Registered: Jun 2013
TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One other thought, but may require too much...

A way to look at posts we've written or responded to, and see that someone else has posted after ours. Even if its just a flag under our profile page showing recent posts.


Me: Done with his bullshit and getting stronger day by day

Posts: 424 | Registered: Jun 2013
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Would it be too huge of an undertaking to make the "marked as read" feature go by subforum rather than by the whole forum? Like if I go into the Menz thread and then I want to read the Divorce forum, it doesn't clear the unread threads before I go into the forum?

Posts: 1580 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Camalus
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

speaking as a newbe.. It would be nice to have a mentoring program. Not everyone would want to use it but on occasion it would be nice to have someone to ask a question you didn't want posted for everyone to see.


Me–BS age 61
Her -- WS age 59
Married for 34 years
One child, 30yrs

Her 'A' 1994(?) through 1998
D-Day 7/4/2013 Yes, I didn't find out for almost 15 years... but the pain is just as bad as if she were with him last week.


Posts: 105 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Near Houston Texas
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Like", clappy hands, and the "image" button are good ideas.

Not a fan of the chat or the search feature ideas.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

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"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6071 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
myperfectlife
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe a search by topic only feature...not search usernames.
Over time people might be more conscious of putting a keyword in their thread title so it is searchable.
I am not for a chat "room", but an instant message feature would be awesome.
"like" button would be great...not sure how possible that is.
On the "recent posts" I'd like to see my recent posts not with the number of posts I've made, but the number of responses AFTER I posted.
This way I don't have to check every recent post to see if anyone has responded.
Favorite thread list would rock.
Oregon Pinot Noir, grapes, fine cheese and crackers.
Chocolate too.
And an end to infidelity ...maybe that can be in the next upgrade :)


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DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

Posts: 452 | Registered: Jul 2013
hathnofury
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you should have "Subscribe to Premium Access" listed in the left menu bar llinks. I know you have it in multiple places, even in RED, but I think you would get more takers if it was in the left menu bar. I really want you guys to never have to worry about having enough funds to stay afloat, because I think you guys are awesome and have literally saved lives.


BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.

Posts: 1461 | Registered: Jun 2011
SeeThingsNow1
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

would like a chat room feature, they have no good chat rooms anymore like they used to..

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jan 2013
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Favorite thread list would rock.

Those types of threads will be going in the Healing Library


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My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I dont know if its been mentioned, but the ability to like/agree with someone's post on a thread. I know there would be times someone said something awesome and I wanted to point out how I agreed with it.

A fund raising feature: for a couple of dollars we could purchase special smiley icons or some chocolate, wine etc icons to entice the mods...or a get out of jail card for someone heading to the dungeon (this would be used as a joke).

Im not sure if I agree with Truly regarding only having im's from your same sex. Ive had some great advice from the Menz.

[This message edited by sullymeishadomi at 5:29 PM, September 17th (Tuesday)]


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Posts: 8210 | Registered: Sep 2007
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those types of threads will be going in the Healing Library

I am happy to see this! I was going to suggest similar, as I think there are some areas of healing not covered in the library or more current versions that would be helpful.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6311 | Registered: Jan 2011
MissMouseMo
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Taking you to the last reply in the string of a PM when you click it?

Taking you to the last *read* posting in a topic you've clicked on so you can get grounded on it again, but not have to read them all - let alone find the last one you remember?


It is the gut-wrenching, down-to-your-soul honesty that helps so much. ~paraphrased from CancunCrushed
"I edit, therefore I am." -BionicGal

Posts: 259 | Registered: Feb 2013
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like SI to talk to me when I open it up and say "welcome back, sweetie!" Just kidding!!!! I vote for the clapping hands smiley, the like button and the img button.

I also wonder if there should be a more direct reminder for donations other than the tiny little pink heart. I'm embarrassed to say I never even think of it unless it gets mentioned in a thread. I'm the type the needs a bill to show up in the mail or email to remind me to pay it, you know? So maybe an eye-catching gif or something on the left side. We always notice when Dr. Phil is doing his Sybil thing, so why not something like that to remind us that the site is funded by donations? I don't think anyone would be offended and hopefully would appreciate the reminder. Maybe there are some fundraiser types on this board that have ideas. My two cents.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4928 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
circlingthedrain
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It would be nice if the landing page for each forum indicated the gender of the person who started each thread.


BH (me), 53
FWW (Her) 55
DD18, DS15
D-Day 12/23/2007
R going well

Wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then --- Bob Seger


Posts: 324 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: East Coast
Kierst13
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is no search feature mainly to help keep our members as anonymous as possible. Also due to the heavy traffic having a search feature would really put a toll on our servers with hundreds of thousands of lurkers using it.

If the search feature would overload the servers if anyone and everyone had access to it; would it be possible to give the search feature access to premium members only, or members with X number of posts, like with the member search in the profile after 50 posts?

As you can tell I'd like to have a search feature. I'd also like the go to last post read option.


Story in my profile
He lied, I gave the gift of R
He became the model remorseful WS...all while lying and seeing her
Am I done? Yes I am!

Posts: 347 | Registered: May 2013
aesir
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe include the formatting buttons on the edit screen post. I know how to do it manually, but I see people saying they can't do it when they edit.

Maybe (not sure about this) a way to embed videos the way we do with pictures.


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