For a bit of background: DD is going on vacation with EXWH (really his parents) for a week Ė he asked for two more days in addition to the week, which I didnít have to agree to per the divorce decree. I agreed, however, to keep things amicable and I will be at work, per usual, during the day anyways so I was being nice. I asked for him to email me with her whereabouts and this is the exchange:
Here is the information about the time while DD is with me and my parents
Sunday 15th - Wednesday 18th : Will be staying at home.
Thursday 19th - Sunday 22nd : staying in a cabin in XXX. The address is Ė 123 Iím a Dick Lane, US 12345
Monday 23rd - Wednesday 24th - DD will be in XXX with my parents.
Would it be possible to drop DD off at 7pm on Wednesday 24th?
What to clarify that the Sunday 29th is my weekend again and that you will be dropping off?
Please bring DD with various clothes. It may be colder weather in Iím a Dick place and she will be going swimming with my parents at an indoor pool.
Thank you for sending the information on where DD will be. Please also confirm what number I can reach your parents at while they have her in case of an emergency.
To answer your questions:
No, I am not ok with you dropping her off at 7pm. Also, I assume you plan to drop her off on Wednesday the 25th? Not the 24th. (Day/date do not match with what you wrote below).
Yes, I intend to drop her off on Sept 29th as itís your normal weekend.
My parents cell number is 555-555-5555
Yes Wednesday 25th. We will drop her off at 6pm.
It is a shame you can not be more flexible with DD's schedule, especially when my parents are here and they dont get to see her that much.
As a reminder again please bring DD with some clothes, for her stay.
Thank you, see you Sunday
I should just not reply, correct? Itís so hard not to when heís being such a dick about an hour. I gave him 2 more days which I didnít have to, and this is his reply to an hour. DD isnít even 3yo yet and will have to get up in the morning which is why I said no to the 7pm drop off. And the clothing bit is bc heís trying to be a dick and bait me on that as well as Iíve never provided him clothing before and the last time he got a bug up his ass he all of a sudden wants me to follow the divorce decree. I donít know how Iím going to deal with his shit for the next 16 years. If this continues to be how he acts as soon as heís told no.