I was in a good mindset heading home to switch with my WW for the child care. She even made breakfast with the idea that I would eat with them, as a sign of goodwill.
Of course then I started asking questions, which I know I shouldn't have and it quickly spiraled out of control, and it ended with her making threats about D and getting full custody, and me yelling in the house about her the AP and I going to hell together (which ticked her off further because of the kids hearing).
Blah. I'm better than that, but she got me with her blame-shifting. Starting back at 0.
One issue that she kept bringing up is my posting about our conversations on-line. So I invited her to join us here, told her my handle and that I am not embarrassed by anything I have posted. Since she has no interest in helping me heal, then my posting and your replies are my current need.
So if she does show up, then please welcome my WW to SI. Hopefully she will finally learn a little about what affairs do to people and their families.