Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: FeebleHercules (44938)

Divorce/Separation Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Survival Tactics
invictus
♀ Member
Member # 21623
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been nearly 5 years since my d-day and just over 4 years since the divorce for me. I did "okay"... but would have been FAR better off if I'd opted to stand on my own two feet instead of meekly accepting every bit of the help I was offered. You CAN say no -- it's just difficult because if you're like I was... you don't know what the heck to do!!!

When you are just starting out and you are flat broke and don't know what in Hades you're going to do ... check out low income housing or Section 8 rentals.

Honestly, if you're low income, do whatever you have to in order to live within your means. Nobody needs the stress of finances added on top to the complicated healing process of being betrayed and losing what you believed was "until death do us part."

Don't let maintaining your possibly prosperous previous lifestyle suck the life out of you; recognize that you're starting over and pinch your pennies so that once you're healed enough, you really CAN celebrate!

Good luck to you all!

[This message edited by invictus at 11:13 PM, September 13th (Friday)]


♥ One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Texas
sunsetslost
♂ Member
Member # 39885
DOH!  Posted: 11:21 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't wait for my divorce. Stupid house holding it back. Thankks for the positive example. I will survive. Insert disco here


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Topic Posts: 2

Return to Forum: Divorce/Separation Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.