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User Topic: He is nuts
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So after a disagreement over his "stipulations", my STBX sent me this text.
"As mean and crazy as you are I still love you very much."
He's gone round the bend.
I blocked him from both text and being able to call me.
Next is going to be my email.
Talk to my lawyer.
I'm done being the meek, mild one.
Bitch boots are on!!


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 605 | Registered: May 2011
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is nuts

He's gone round the bend.

Good move on the blocking.

It seems to take them a little while to accept that their old tricks no longer work.


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Posts: 5440 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Take2
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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It seems to take them a little while to accept that their old tricks no longer work.

^^Bingo!


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Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
sammie
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. He's gone bunta! Block and ignore is the very best thing you can possibly do. Hugs!


If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.
Never give more of yourself than you are getting back.

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Posts: 5818 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: Australia
Pass
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're mean and crazy for not putting up with his horseshit? That sounds about right. If you were a nicer, saner person, you'd let him screw other women.

Fuck him.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

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Posts: 1694 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"As mean and crazy as you are I still love you very much."

Wow, talk about talking out of both sides of your mouth. That sentance is like getting punched in the face and then the person who punched you gives you a hug.

Sounds like he is just proving you made the right choice to move on from him.

[This message edited by RyeBread at 10:38 AM, September 13th (Friday)]


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Posts: 1024 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass nailed it.


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OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Posts: 730 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a jerk! That's like when someone insults you and follows it with "Just kidding!"

Blocking/NC is the way to go, but if I could send him a text, I'd say: "Did you know that you're a total douchebag? Just kidding!"


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Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When we were kids, our parents used to have a saying: "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."


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A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


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