I'm still mulling on some of this. Thanks.
Just to clarify a couple of things:
* We're not having sex etc. That bakery is closed and boarded up!
* He's not in a relationship with COW...he didn't 'perform' well and she doesn't want him that way. But who knows what could happen at a wedding weekend when everyone starts coupling up?
* I got checked out months ago. He was horrified at the thought he could have given me something. He really hadn't given it a thought during...
I'm off to mull the other stuff, though.