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User Topic: So...what if I don't want to detach?
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Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

By the way, I do hope that you've had yourself fully tested for STD's. Blood, urine and a Pap, please. You did this, right? Told the doctor to check you for Hep C as well?

And I hope that when you're intimate with your adulterous, promise-breaking, covenant-destroying, disrespectful, cake-eating husband that you insist he wear a condom EVERY time. If you won't do anything to protect your spirit or your emotional/mental health, I hope you will at least protect yourself physically from whatever diseases or infections he brings home from his whore-fest of a Vegas weekend. And from this point onwards, as well. Your health isn't safe with him as long as he's cheating on you.

Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm still mulling on some of this. Thanks.

Just to clarify a couple of things:

* We're not having sex etc. That bakery is closed and boarded up!

* He's not in a relationship with COW...he didn't 'perform' well and she doesn't want him that way. But who knows what could happen at a wedding weekend when everyone starts coupling up?

* I got checked out months ago. He was horrified at the thought he could have given me something. He really hadn't given it a thought during...

I'm off to mull the other stuff, though.

Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1062 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


There is a faith based book that I would like to recommend:

Love must be tough by Dr. James Dobson.

It addresses a lot of your questions from a faith based perspective.

Me - BS
Him - Doesn't Matter
Status: Divorced

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