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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phew! I got here late, and I'm so glad you decided to say no!

I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20291 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Sad...

I was leaning towards "Hell No" but it was nice to have back up.

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24597 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No Not in the early stages of withdrawl. However I do think it would be beneficial for him to see what a mess he is after he has somewhat stabilized, and discuss the fact that because of his addiction he is 30 years old with nothing to show for it.

This can be a sobering, and definitely good life lesson. Just not while they are in the throws of actual physcial withdrawl.

Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8717 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IF it was a close friend or family member I might say it would be okay to witness some of it as a good teaching experience. And it's not much worse than seeing someone violently ill with food poisoning that anyone could witness at anytime. However, since this is a virtual stranger to your son why would his father want to subject him to that on purpose? That's just weird. His dad should take him out to spend time with him.

Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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