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User Topic: How did you pick your user name?
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tesla, is that a diss of Thomas Edison? After all, you've told so many stories of how "brilliant" your ex is...


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5832 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tesla, yours has always been one to my favorite usernames, and I just assumed it came from Edison's idiocacy... Glad to hear it does!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13184 | Registered: Jul 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tesla, yours has always been one to my favorite usernames, and I just assumed it came from Edison's idiocacy... Glad to hear it does!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13184 | Registered: Jul 2011
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Long story for a full explanation. No previous user names allowed, had to be something non pathetic or I knew I would stop logging in, had to be something I could personally relate to (genealogy), found a folklore reference to one of the norse gods having a cheating wife as well...
Now it helps to announce to everyone my godlike qualities, namely that I am arrogant, vain, petty, and vindictive.

Yes, but how (and this has been debated among a few of us ) do you PRONOUNCE aesir?

My guess is "AYE SIR". AmIRight?


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10422 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
aesir
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it is pronounced the same as the cheap laptops.

I also spelled it wrong because my keyboard does not have .


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh. I thought it was Ass-er.

My name pretty much explains itself, I think.

ETA: Waywardon agrees with the Acer pronunciation.

[This message edited by ThoughtIKnewYa at 12:14 AM, September 16th (Monday)]


Posts: 10905 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
aesir
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Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TIKY, it only gets pronounced that way when somebody calls me wise.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FWS was a Military Dog Handler in the Air Force. They have a saying "Once a K9 always a K9".

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6323 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Mr. Kite
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

While registering for this site I was listening to the Beatles 'Being For The Benefit Of Mr. Kite.'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCiG7xoEb2Y

It always struck me as such a sad, surreal song and it fit for the mood I was in at the time.


Posts: 900 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Mid-Atlantic
RedRose
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After reading for months, I registered a few days after our anniversary. I was looking at the 14 red roses WH had delivered on our anniversary, so picked that as my name.

A month later, I found out he had talked to her on our anniversary (and every other day since Dday 2) - and now hate the name.


BW-35
WH - 35
2.5 year LTA

Posts: 154 | Registered: Jun 2013
RiotGrrrl
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't want to be sad/broken, etc. for years to come, and I was pretty angry and kept thinking "who is angry yet not a victim?" and thought of riot grrrls

The spelling echoes how much I was grrrr-ing my way through life then.

:)

RG


Me: BS (38)
Him: WS (39)
Married: Six years, D Day 11/8/05
Divorce final: Nov 06
Two gorgeous sons: 10 and 8

Posts: 1045 | Registered: Dec 2005 | From: KY
teach5
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no imagination- I am a teacher and I had 5 kids.

Posts: 415 | Registered: Mar 2008
cardnial
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I picked the name Cardinal because it was my mothers favorite bird.My mom died 2 years ago and at Christmas time I put a little cardinal on her grave. I also LOVE the color red. I was pretty messed up the night I joined this club of wonderful people. I had been in bed crying for 3 days, my eyes were swollen shut. I had a couple/few glasses of wine and spelled cardinal wrong. I spelled it cardinal. Oh well, true story.

Posts: 54 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: pennsylvania
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dogs names are Sparky and Sable. Sadly, Sable has since passed from cancer.



D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 2793 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
DWBH
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't Wanna Be Here


Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 41 (ThornyRose)
M: 16 years, together 19
2 Daughters: 14 and 12
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

Posts: 729 | Registered: May 2012 | From: WI
Simple
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've always felt that life can be very good and simple, that people are the one that makes it more complicated than it has to be. Hence I felt I am simple cause I feel it's really easy to understand that for every action there are consequences. Whereas if my FWH was ever to join I would've told him to use "Complicated".


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am SO boring.

HFSSC= My initials and my state of residence.

I bet if you think really hard you can guess how JM picked his name. (JMSSC)


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2475 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
41andthankful
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I signed up 1 month after dday. My bday was coming up and I was just thankful to get to see another one.

Posts: 241 | Registered: Mar 2013
boontje
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My childhood nickname, translated to Dutch. If my H ever reads or joins, he would know me in an instant.


Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Working on R, one day at a time

The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.
― Ernest Hemingway



Posts: 914 | Registered: Aug 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't Wanna Be Here
That makes a lot more sense than any of my guesses, DWBH.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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