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User Topic: How did you pick your user name?
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At the time I joined, I was an Office Manager and RN for a pair of Colorectal surgeons. I was known as tushnurse at work, as my boss was tushdr.

I chose this because at the time, I knew work was my escape, and my work would support myself, and kids should I need to D.

Now I am no longer a tushnurse, I am a Care Manager for a patient population that is high risk for future illness, and provide them with the skills, tools, and really anything necessary to make sure they stay well, and improve their overall health.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8744 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
heartbroken0903
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Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was heartbroken to lose relationship with XH over my stupidity and selfishness.

09/03 = wedding anniversary.

If I could pick a new one today it would be different.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Remarried.


Posts: 2247 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
WarehouseGuy
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Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Mine took a lot of thought. I was working at a warehouse at the time

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5386 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
runninbehind78
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Member # 35454
Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I'd love to stick around but I'm running behind" -Running on Empty, Jackson Browne
This was the song stuck in my head on d-day and is pretty much my philosophy on life now.


Me-BBF-34
Her-WWGF-35
Together 16 years
Multiple EA over 2 years
9 month long EA/PA with my friend.
Dday1-4/20/12
Dday2-6/16/12
Dday3-8/20/12
Dday4-8/23/12
Dday5-a few weeks later


"I can't escape my own escape."


Posts: 10 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Hell on earth
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok now I can say I was waiting with baited breath for tush nurse. I kept thinking of "assman" on Sienfeld and figured it was something like that. I really don't mean to make light of our names, I mean let's face it every one of us was in a dark place when we were signing up. I've really enjoyed reading the responses and feel like I know all of you just a little better.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry to disappoint, but I can tell you I have an arsenal stocked full of fun stories that will make you die with laughter, and say Ewww all at the same time.

Assnurse just didn't seem appropriate for my work email at the time.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8744 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it's my sister's name. I don't know why I chose it. When I write sports stories for the newspaper her name is my pen name as well. She thinks it's funny. She knows I'm using it here too.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5329 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well hell! Another one who's name isn't their name! Lol


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6569 | Registered: Jan 2011
movingbackwards
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Member # 40612
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ben Rector song that has summed up my disbelief over everything that's happened.

"Standing still isn't easy when the world's moving backwards."


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

Posts: 85 | Registered: Sep 2013
Lyonesse
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Member # 32943
Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Huh, someone mentioned using an automatic name generator. I never thought of that, so I went and tried one out just now, and I got:

Jellyfluff Sugarbreeze Honeycloud


That is SO not me that I am tempted to use it for something!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is Baxter and I'm his BFF. He likes the same beer as me...


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..at Baxter's..

What a great looking doggie!!

..my name needs no explanation..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
aesir
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Member # 17210
Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Assnurse just didn't seem appropriate for my work email at the time.
Could have made you a celebrity, just like Dick Assman the gas man.

I have actually been to that station, while the sign was up.

[This message edited by aesir at 11:21 PM, September 12th (Thursday)]


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is one of those that I've since email was first invented. I was studying Russian at the time and after some frustration at not being able to come up with a good email address, I told my husband, "I don't know!" In Russian, "I don't know" is "neznayou" (transliterated of course). It really isn't appropriate here because now I know so much more than I did before. I should have gone with "SeeChas Znayou" ("now I know"), but out of habit went with what I had.

Thanks for sharing the story of your name TushNurse. My guess wasn't far off, but I was still curious. Many of these user names are kinda obvious, but not yours.


Me: WW
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

"Power, Lincoln, real power comes not from hate, but from truth."


Posts: 311 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: America to Europe
EvenKeel
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Member # 24210
Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am known for my 'hard to frazzle' personality.

This week, my friend had a nightmare that her H was having an A. She said in her dream she actually was thinking "I have to call EvenKeel because she handled her D with such eloquence"

Of course she woke up from her nightmare mad as he77 at her poor sleeping H.

Ironically - I don't feel so "evenkeel" somedays!

[This message edited by EvenKeel at 9:25 AM, September 13th (Friday)]


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2185 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"SeeChas Znayou" ("now I know")
Filed away for future use. Thanks, Neznayou!

(ps - Hi, Baxter! )


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25842 | Registered: Aug 2011
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tush nurse you did not disappoint at all!
One of my dearest friends told us her story of going to a proctologist after child birth and she had us girls crying with laughter, so I can only imagine the stuff you could tell.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi NIK!

SMY he is a pretty doggie. Hope things are well with you.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Amber13
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Member # 40505
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like the name... and it is 2013. Very original, haha.

Posts: 63 | Registered: Aug 2013
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In my marriage, I was always playing Nikola Tesla to his playing of Thomas Edison.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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