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User Topic: How did you pick your user name?
lost_in_space
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Default  Posted: 3:12 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Felt really lost and my son was watching the movie Lost in Space and it just fit.

Now I would definitely pick something that included "Badass.".


Me: BW 38

Last DDay: 7/15/09
TT: 2/28/11
TT: 3/5/11
Dday again: 3/10/2011
All Done: Better late then never.


Posts: 3513 | Registered: Jun 2009
TheRealDeal
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Member # 39560
Default  Posted: 5:21 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I confronted I told him that he would never find what he was searching for in OW. That I was the best thing that ever came into his life and the path he was going down would lead to him being alone.

That what he was searching for was already standing in front of him at the time (me) and that I was 1000% The Real Deal and genuine.


Me: 45, him: 53
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Posts: 242 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
whatdoto
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Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted whattodo, but apparently did know what to do, so it came out as whattodo.


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had two earlier screen names rejected and this just popped into my mind because I accepted a lot of pain in various areas since moving to Georgia and this just topped the list.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3335 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was just a statement of fact for me.


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13648 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When dday happened, suddenly things made sense. Things I had been struggling to understand for ages, trying to figure out why this and where'd that come from and what's that about.

The pieces fell into place and it was a moment of "huh - well, now I know." The 23 has to do with my birthday.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24442 | Registered: Aug 2011
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is part of the name of the river we honeymooned at and spent a lot of romantic time both dating and married. The Tred Avon river is on the eastern shore of Maryland.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3772 | Registered: Dec 2011
SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And mine is the name of the place we stayed during those wonderful times


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 431 | Registered: Dec 2012
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted something other than my usual username versions, so went with a diving term as it is a hobby (although geez have not gone forever and have never used a rebreather, lol). I was further out from dday when I found SI, so "rebreather" made me think of how I was now able to kind of take a deep breath, and sustain myself with it.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6311 | Registered: Jan 2011
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5 long term relationships, five women who cheated. 5 For 5 for real.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2578 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

little turtle describes how I felt when I found SI. small and slow moving. I knew the road I was facing was going to be a long one.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SI ate the first two I used and wouldn't let me register the SN or use the same email so I just kind of floundered around and typed in "IAmStillGoingHere" but cut that back. One of the first two I tried was SevenDays, don't remember the other.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7370 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
JKL Vikings
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The J, K, and L are my sons' first initials. The Vikings part is the pee wee football organization they play and do drill for


Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 41
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference

Posts: 515 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Dallas, TX
weimylady
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got weimies :)

(The dogs, not some kind of nasty disease)!

[This message edited by weimylady at 2:36 PM, September 9th (Monday)]


I edit to correct my mistakes - and there are usually mistakes ....

Posts: 231 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: England
Myname
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was so mad that I had to join SI and I didn't want to be here that when it asked me for my name I pulled an attitude and just wrote Myname.

I really like my name now. It sometimes feels like an Abbot and Costello routine. Oh, and I like being here with you people.


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 2931 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
Exit Wounds
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Member # 32811
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Husband of 17 years had a pregnant gf while I was clueless!
Then he walked out and never looked back. My kids haven't seen him in two years. He walked out on Father's day of all days...

"Exit Wounds"


Posts: 2478 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was the first name I ever used online, about 100 years ago. I wanted something anonymous but that was still connected to my real first name. Mickey is often used as a nick name by people who have my first name and even though I never used it I thought Mickey Mouse would be a good user name. It was already taken as was Minnie Mouse. Somehow "Minnie" became "meanie" (think Minnie with a phony French accent) and you have meaniemouse.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2094 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Once a long time ago, when I worked at a former job, someone emailed me asking if my company had logoed ties for sale. We were an industrial parts resale company, and for the life of me, I could not figure out why someone would want a tie with our incredibly unknown and boring logo on it.

The domain name of the emailer was stroppywanadoo. I always found great amusement in it, and it was something I could remember. Sometimes I am sorry I took this fun name and assigned it to a sad situation, but in the end, everything turned out just fine. We survived... and thrived!

[This message edited by stroppy_wanadoo at 4:16 PM, September 9th (Monday)]


Posts: 1007 | Registered: Jul 2006
aesir
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long story for a full explanation. No previous user names allowed, had to be something non pathetic or I knew I would stop logging in, had to be something I could personally relate to (genealogy), found a folklore reference to one of the norse gods having a cheating wife as well...

Now it helps to announce to everyone my godlike qualities, namely that I am arrogant, vain, petty, and vindictive.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
unfound
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In the series "The Dark Tower", the main character is on a quest for a tower, where at the top, it will give him all the answers of the universe, all the answers to himself, and save the destruction of the fabric that holds everything together.

At the end, he reaches his destination, his tower, but finds a door marked "unfound" that he must go through in order to enter. He must lay down all that he has, all that defines him and all he holds dear at the door way. Then the door changes to "found" and allows him to enter.

Once he enters, each level of the tower is a memory of his life, his quest, a time, a place, that he must witness, relive and come to peace (or understanding) with.

When he reaches the top though, it's revealed that he's forgotten something...something seemingly insignificant at the time, but imperative to his journey, and he is sent back to the beginning to relive, re-seek and realize that he may have been on this journey a thousand times over, and may well repeat it a thousand times again until he finally gets it right.

I could kind of relate.


[This message edited by unfound at 5:49 PM, September 9th (Monday)]


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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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