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User Topic: How did you pick your user name?
TrustGone
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Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is pretty obvious. Since this is my second marriage with a cheater, my trust is gone and I don't think it will ever return again. Plus everyone shortens it to TG.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
jstbreathe
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Member # 40829
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because I had to keep telling myself to "just breathe." Also, from the song by ANNA NALICK, "Breathe (2 AM)"


The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool.
Stephen King
Me: BW
Him: WH
Married: 18 years
2 sons, 11&15
Trying to R

Posts: 152 | Registered: Sep 2013
maxandsen
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Member # 37173
Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a mix between mine and FWH names. I have second guessed that choice several times


Me: 40
FWH: 51
Married 12 years
DDay: Jan 2012
A: One year
S: 6 weeks before he pulled his head out
R: March 2012
On the bumpy road to happy

Posts: 67 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: USA
DWBH
♂ Member
Member # 35512
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That makes a lot more sense than any of my guesses, DWBH.

Yeah, I had no idea what all the acronyms were when I joined... I'm sure most folks think my name is Don Walton, or something like that...


Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 41 (ThornyRose)
M: 16 years, together 19
2 Daughters: 14 and 12
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

Posts: 729 | Registered: May 2012 | From: WI
LadyLove
♀ Member
Member # 40664
Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH calls me Lady.. and says it with love .


BW - 46 (me)
WH - 48 Ladyslove
Don't know if I can live with it.

Posts: 92 | Registered: Sep 2013
SuperDuperWonderboy
♂ Member
Member # 34716
Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do I even need to say anything? DS and MH assigned me this name due to my awesomeness.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1296 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Tred
♂ Member
Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do I even need to say anything?

Never.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4028 | Registered: Dec 2011
heartache101
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Member # 26465
Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking they need to teach a class to High School Students and college students about infidelity. Was wondering what they would call it...
Heartache101


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3188 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
PricklePatch
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Member # 34041
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking as a child, sometimes the grass would look all nice. Then walking bare foot you would step into some innocent grass and hit a patch of those round stickers. I called it a prickle patch. As they would get in my feet. I liken this whole ordeal as a big principle patch. Painful and not knowing where to step to get out of it.


BS
Fwh
sorry post on my tablet

Posts: 318 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: pricklepatch
Ashland13
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Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some things about the nature in my yard, that I will have to leave soon.

Chances are I will ask to change it when I'm in a new place.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2306 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Spell" is because I proofread and edit med-legal reports all day. "jean" is the short form of my middle name.


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Completelybroken
♀ Member
Member # 40051
Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very unoriginal of me but it was how I felt at the time ( still do somedays)
Plus it wouldn't let me pick thissucksass


Me-BS 31
Him-FWH 37
Dday-7-6-13
EA-1yr
PA sex 3-4times over three months during the EA

Posts: 93 | Registered: Jul 2013
Hope2B
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Member # 40474
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My user name, which was too long, was going to be this:

Hope2BeNotVomitingAllTheTime His A made me so sick to my stomach, and vomiting is a normal reaction to me during times of great emotional distress (the death of a person or dog beloved to me, the death of our marriage).

Now, depending on how I'm feeling, it might be something like these:
Hope2BeFeelingBetterOneOfTheseDays
Hope2BeRippingHimANewOneBecauseHeIsStillSoStupid
Hope2BeBetter

Hope2B(fill-in the rest)

Sometimes, I'm just Hope.


Me: early 60s
Him: 65 yrs old, LTA w/a pro$titute
Married since 1980, no children
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth Days: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
His affair--says it was only 8 times 1x/mo, then found out it was 7 YEARS 2-3x/mo or maybe ever 4x/mo

Posts: 360 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: out west/west coast U.S.A.
cancuncrushed
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Member # 28156
Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was already working out of state, early in our marriage. I was having suspicions, and he planned my all time dream trip to cancun. Took the children. It was a dream come true. And he spent his time chasing and trying to be near or with a young 20 something girl. It was my first real look at seeing it happen right before my eyes. Our kids were 5 and 10. ANd they were also watching. it crushed me.


a trigger yesterday

Posts: 977 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
LonelySilhouette
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Member # 39502
Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My picture was in the paper once, and I was a silhouette shovelling snow in a storm and the caption underneath said Lonely Silhouette. I thought it fit for here.


Me - 49 (BS)
Him - 51 (WH with "8 or 9" prostitutes)
Married 30 years, give or take a few weeks here and there
D-Day - May 4, 2013
Discovered an EA going on since 2010 around that time, too. NC in place now.


Posts: 88 | Registered: Jun 2013
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH and I always loved the old justice league cartoons. They had the Wondertwins- a brother and sister that would clink their magic rings together and change shapes to stop the bad guys.
One of them could become anything water related- the other could be any animal. I will demonstrate-

There's a fire. They clink their magic rings and say "Wondertwins- Activate!" One twin says "shape of... A bucket of water" the other days "shape of .... a monkey!" Then the monkey grabs the bucket of water and puts out the flames. Problem solved!

It was our thing. Anytime we had a problem, we would come up with a plan of action. If we both agreed it was a good plan, we would clink our wedding rings and say "Wondertwins - activate!"
Yes... We are nerds. It was one of the reasons we ended up together.
We have done it since before we were married and it has always gotten us through tough times- well, mostly. My wondertwin counterpart stopped clinking rings with me for a bit.
But we are back on track and now... Clinking our rings is what we do when we have just finished a great R conversation and are both ready to step back into real life.


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
Goosee1
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Member # 41122
Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a play on my name. My name is not even spelled remotely close to "Goo-see" but everyone seems to want to pronounce it that way.

Either "Goose", "Goo-see" or "Gee-see", somehow.


Posts: 11 | Registered: Oct 2013
90Worthless90
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Member # 39855
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's how I feel/felt.


Me: 23

Him: 29

Together 6 years.

DS: 2yrs

Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"

Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday


Posts: 28 | Registered: Jul 2013
MakingLemonade
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Member # 41143
Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I try to be hopeful. Given the lemons we've been dealt, what else is there to do but make lemonade?


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
surviving1963
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Member # 40393
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cuz sometimes I am barely surviving. Just existing.


Me: 50
WH: 50 pro cake-eater, NPD, SA
Married 33 years
D-Days 3-4-12, 8-19-12 (EA, probably PA)porn,ashleymadison, etc, etc
4 sons, 3 daughters
8 grandkids
Divorcing - finally

Posts: 120 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Utah
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