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User Topic: AP, who are they?
crazyblindsided
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Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOW worked for WH but is now unemployed, she was a delivery driver for him.

She is a single mother who is no longer with her BS.

She does not have a college degree.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
HoneyMe
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Member # 40613
Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Skank #1 Married mother to two toddlers, worked at at an animal hospital.

Skank #2 Nurse, Married 3 times.

Skank #3 Nurse Practitioner in a women's health center. She had no problem having unprotected sex. She gives vaginal examines to betrayed wives when needed to check out for all those pesky STD's.
Not married at the moment.


3 A's
Blinded-sided DD 9/2011
Again 11/2011 and then more truth the next day. Separated 4 months. 2012, the year of truth and reconciliation.

Posts: 63 | Registered: Sep 2013
crestfallen
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Member # 27993
Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW was a sales rep in H's company, he was the CEO....but not her direct boss.

My S worked there too, she went after him first, and after he turned her down, she set her sights on his Daddy! Sweet..

She was 36 at the time the A started and lived at home with her beautiful gorgeous Mommy! Can I puke now? She's now 41, and still at home with her beautiful gorgeous mommy! Loser! Never married! Ummmm, I wonder why?

[This message edited by crestfallen at 2:32 PM, September 9th (Monday)]


BS-me-57
WH-57
Married 32 years
OW-Mr. Ed ish! Seriously!
DDAY- 2/21/09
TT until 1/10/10
Working on R and doing well!!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Mar 2010
TheClimb
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Member # 25895
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW is a secretary for my boss' Aunt and Uncle...

I told him the whole story!


"That which can be destroyed by the truth should be" P.C. Hodgell

Posts: 452 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Southern Maryland
CannotTrust
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Member # 35605
Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unemployed - high school girlfriend
A Dumsel in distress


BS (Me) 47
WS 46
1st DDay February 5, 2012
2nd DDay August 24, 2012
3rd Dday October 10, 2012
4th Dday and found out False Reconciliation October 20, 2012
Not Sure If I want to Divorce or keep reconciling???

Posts: 13 | Registered: May 2012
Garnet
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Member # 39070
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Skank is now divorced(married while she was fucking my husband in parking lots in her clown car) has 3 kids, twins were 4 years old when affair started.... how did she find the time?? She is an ELL TUTOR, got a job in the same school system as me!! She's a fucked up headcase!!! I'm so lucky!!!


Garnet☀

Posts: 82 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: MA
sunflowergirl30
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Member # 28979
Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok here it goes...

My husbands former AP/mow is a 48yr. old twice married onced divorced mother of 2 adult children and 1minor child. She was our realtor. She wasn't interested in selling our house...just in f*cking my h. She succeeded. Oh and shes a taurus.


Together 20yrs married 17yrs
2 kids, now 18 & 15
Bw: now 37
Wh: now 36
Mow: now 49
1st D-day EA w/mow our realtor 4-?-2007, 2nd D-day PA w/ same mow 5-29-2010

Posts: 1046 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Pacific Northwest
Whalers11
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Member # 27544
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW worked as a part-time bartender, and part-time in retail.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

Posts: 2172 | Registered: Feb 2010
bionicgal
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Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord, they really do affair down don't they!

A 40-year-old PT desk clerk at the gym.


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.

I edit, therefore I am.


Posts: 1738 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Issaquah
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW1 - hair stylist for my WH (he was my fiancée at the time)
OW2 - SAHM married mother of three who had a history of running off with other men.
OW3 - Teacher, she didn't know she was an OW...not sure if I should count her.
OW4 - Parole Officer on heavy psych meds, recently divorced with a teenage son - met WH on Ashley Madison, she was also a swinger during her married years.
OW5 - Married mother of a 5 year old full time student and secret dominatrix - I'm not sure if her BH knew her fetish side.
OW6 - "Bus Boy" at Ruby Tuesday's and then got a job at an Acura dealer. She was living with her teen age son in a room donated by a church.
OW7 - Not sure what her profession was- she was married and a mother, also into swinging - I found out about her when she sent my WH an invitation to a swingers party.
OW8 - Mother recently separated, teacher
OW9 - Works as a clerk processing bankruptcy. She has an adult son in year doing time for drugs.


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW 1 - 3: No clue
OW 4: Sales/Marketing
Main OW: set decorator film/tv
OW 6 - ???: no clue


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 725 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
brknwmn
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

School teacher, single mom, with 3 kids

5'5" 250 lbs, & late 30's-early 40's.

(I'm 5"1" 110 lbs, & 26) fucking idiot of a husband...don't they normally go for younger more in shape? he went for older, out of shape...guess i better bust out the twinkies

[This message edited by brknwmn at 7:16 PM, September 9th (Monday)]


Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13

Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.


Posts: 78 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
stunnedin12
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Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

airline industry


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 426 | Registered: Jan 2013
BeyondBreaking
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Member # 38020
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

let's see here:

XWF's OW was a student. Unemployed.

DD's dad (my other ex)'s OW worked as a checked at Safeway. Anyone message me and I will give the store address. Haha

WH's OW's...I have no idea what they did for a living. Their conversations never went there. I find it funny...I would NEVER send pictures of my "lady parts" to some guy from the internet that I didn't know...especially someone who didn't know me well enough to know what I did for a living. Sad, really.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 840 | Registered: Jan 2013
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Main OW#1 is a college educated married stay-at-home mom of two, and was my BFF since I was 9.

Craig's List Ad OW#2 worked for the state, and got transferred away, which is why the A ended.

Craig's List Ad Attempted OW#3 turned out to be a 15yo H.S. Student. WH went to meet her and was greeted by the police on D-Day #1.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1509 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PhD in speech pathology. Ironic because I'd like to cut her tongue out!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2069 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
MegM
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Member # 34941
Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She says she is a SAHM who loves to be 'their for her children' A christian with traditional values.

In fact a part-time music teacher, zumba instructor and singer (music theatre and dance band).


BS / fWS- me 41 (@ DDay)
WS / BS - him 39-BlindFreddy (@DDay)
My DD's 13 Jan 2012 / 29 Jan / 27 Feb (Trickle truth for 5 wks)
His DDay Dec 2003 (details 06/12)
Married
3 children (6 - 16 at discovery)
remembering "Sunshine on my shoulde

Posts: 577 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Australia
surviving1963
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Member # 40393
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW was my husband's "Psychic". As soon as they met they felt a "deep connection" She said she sees and hears dead people. OW does "Angel readings" for BH and some of his family. Some of them literally worship her. So precious! They both admitted to falling in love and feel like soul mates. They said they will "just be friends", but will never discontinue contact.

Me: almost 50
Him: almost 50
married 32 years
7 great kids
7 awesome grandkids
1st d day 3-4-12
2nd d day 8-19-12
Divorcing the narcissist


Me: 50
WH: 50 pro cake-eater, NPD, SA
Married 33 years
D-Days 3-4-12, 8-19-12 (EA, probably PA)porn,ashleymadison, etc, etc
4 sons, 3 daughters
8 grandkids
Divorcing - finally

Posts: 105 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Utah
JanaGreen
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Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ONS #1 - Escort

"Crush" texting just-friend - the girl who did his payroll

ONS #2 - a nail tech/yoga instructor that he picked up at a bar (don't picture a slim toned hottie - I didn't know yoga instructors could be so, er, rotund)


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6514 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
shiloe
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Both were MOW reg. nurses who worked on his unit. He is also a nurse, I put him through college.


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with married ho-worker. Kicked him out, he filed

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