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User Topic: AP, who are they?
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay home mom who was bored. She was screwing 3 different married men at the time! Well,,, now she lives with my XWH and she works a week and 1/2 to pay my child support!!!

Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2318 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of my closest friends. Sang at my wedding, was at my hen night, we spent Christmas with her and her family and let her stay with us after a bad break up and a spell on drugs.

Posts: 309 | Registered: Mar 2013
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1:
Episode 2:

Posts: 7135 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW was an employee at the Big Box Do It Yourself home improvement store where FWH was a manager.

However, OW was fired from there and has been unemployed since, but is on disability because of a motorcycle accident. < why didn't it just die?

OW is a serial cumdumpster for MM who thinks it has the golden va jay-jay that will be able to lure these MM away from their wives and families and it will get everything the wives have. OW usually "fucks up" (as opposed to "affairing down") in the financial department.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 12:19 PM, February 8th (Saturday)]

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 9949 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At the time of the affair OW was a SAHM to 4 children (one was only 4 months old). Her husband (after finding out about the affair) quit his job to stay home with the kids. She is now separated, only sees her kids 3days a week and is an elementary school teacher.

I hope f'ng my WH was worth the hell she is currently living.

Married 9 years, together for 11 years
2 children (7 years & 4 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

Posts: 468 | Registered: Apr 2012
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She works for the Department of State, a fucking diplomat. Aspires to be an Ambassador some day.

Me: 38 yo BW
Him: 40 yo WH
2 daughters (8, 5); married 15 yrs
DD: 6/2/13 (5 mo EA/PA with coworker)

Posts: 49 | Registered: Sep 2013
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Shocked  Posted: 1:52 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Undergraduate student

Me (BS) 42 Him (FWS) 43
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov 2013
Married 11 years, T 19 years

Posts: 249 | Registered: Mar 2013
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All hood rat, ratchet, gutter pigs he met while working - he's employed as cop but clearly just a hood rat, gutter pig himself.

OW1 - 30's, chronically unemployed, 2 young kids, looks like an inmate from a women's prison complete with giant jail house tattoo smack in the middle of her tits. She used to do custody exchanges with one of her baby daddy's at WH's precinct.

OW2 - 30's, unemployed druggie, baby daddy is in jail for drug dealing, fancies her herself a "model", and by model I mean posting pics of herself online making her "hold up, I'm taking a dump" face. He picked her up while working an election detail.

OW3 - 40's, mother of an adult child, meter maid, she was working in his area when he picked her up. I use the female pronouns loosely as I'm not convinced "she" is a natural born woman and looks just like my cousin Paul in drag.

OW4 - 30's, married with a kid, met her while she was hanging out in his precinct. This is an area you only hang out in if you're up to no good. They only texted for a few weeks, so I don't know too much else about her.

OW5 - see description of OW4, except not married and no kids. She's a pothead, as smoking pot was the topic of 90% of their texts.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Go your way,
I'll take the long way 'round,
I'll find my own way down,
As I should.

Posts: 79 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Grr Argh
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Divorced co-worker with two kids. She got fired from the hospital they worked together in for thumbing through a porn magazine with a patient and discussing the pictures with him. How disgusting is that?


Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=UW or Ugly Whore- cow of WH
UW claims to be pregnant w/ WH baby and I HATE her for it.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 14 years
Married: 10 years
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 8, 4, & 19 months
Trying to R-Some days are

Posts: 179 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Southeastern U.S.
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine - Christian minister
His - escort he picked up in a bar (he says he didn't know she was a whore)
Rolls eyes

Madhatters, M 33 yrs
Separated 5 mos in 07.His DDay,11/07.False R since 07. My DDay,7/5/13."Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.
― Margery Williams, The Velveteen Rabbit

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: United States
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OM #1-A 19 year old motor pool Airman while I was deployed to the Far East in the USAF. Would have seriously hit the fan if they had been caught.

OM #2-A coworker at the middle school she taught at. That one was outed, but I didn't find out until years later. I now know why she left that school district after only one school year.

Both of these occurred in the first 3 years of our marriage. I found out about them on DDay for OM #3.

OM #3 was a IT Service Tech for a computer services company. He also was her best friends husband and a friendly acquaintance of mine.

This was enough for me to cut her loose immediately. Her best friend took her husband back and are attempting R.

[This message edited by BryanP37 at 3:43 PM, February 8th (Saturday)]

BS: Me-39
XWS: Her-34
Married 7 yrs, together 9 years-No kids
Ex had 4 month PA with her best friends husband. Other flings early in marriage confessed during discovery.
Divorce final 6-25-2013.
Carefully reconciling after divorce. 10/2013

Posts: 31 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Texas
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH AP was a bar slut MOW with 2 teenage boys and she cleaned houses for a living! What a bloody joke!


Life is not measured by the breaths we take
but by the moments that take our breath away.

Posts: 222 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: canada
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW1 unemployed
OW2 bar manager for corporate chain of restaurants
OW3 waitress
OW4 unemployed "actress"
OW5 unemployed client of his
OW6 some type of sales
OW7 student and single SAHM
OW8 unemployed
OW9 personal trainer

What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel

Posts: 1777 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SAHM who used to be my friend. She worked p/t on and off as a barista or a retail sales clerk.

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1799 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OM works shift work on assembly line for Intel Corp.

Posts: 268 | Registered: Oct 2013
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is a 24 year old college student (having recently returned to school) and part-time nanny-slash-model. She used to work at summer camps. She comes across as vivacious and wholesome, but is a damaged, heartless, narcissist.

Me: 36
WH: 44
DS: 7
DD: 5

His AP: 24, former family friend and babysitter

Married 11 1/2 yrs

D-Day: 2/1/2014 3 month PA, 24 months sexting

Posts: 43 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Washington
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marketing rep who used to date a friend of ours. We used to socialize with them, though I wouldn't say I ever considered her a "friend".

She also did some time in jail for embezzling from a former employer. She's two years older than me and XWH.

What a class act.

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin

Posts: 1000 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Major Department Store department manager. She started in high school, no college, worked her way up. From the investigation of my P.I., she did a lot of 'sleeping her way to the top' too. She also had two different affairs with 'boy toys' who worked for her. She was twice the age of her boy toys when she hooked up with my H.

She still has her same job.

"Because I deserve better"

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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 3475 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OW with zero morals is a middle school teacher, teaches writing.... maybe next we will see her on the news as one of those teachers who seduces one of her students... DISGUSTING!

Good to know these are the types of people teaching our children huh?

"A tree falls the way it careful which way you lean"

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