Topic: movies you shouldn't watch
Member # 35624
| Posted: 12:09 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
Netflix has an indie film called "Rid of Me" which many might find triggery. It is a little dark film, that has some hilarious moments. I like it because the main character is very introverted like me and there were some awkward moments in the film that resonated with me. So reminded me of many moments with my WH and mutual friends where I felt like an outsider.
"Something to Talk About" with Julia Roberts is great, and actually empowering. Very triggery for some no doubt though.
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Member # 32122
| Posted: 2:37 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
The Incredibles of all movies triggers me....a cartoon!
Elastic girl thinks Mr incredible is having an affair.
Posts: 2792 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
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Member # 40621
| Posted: 4:22 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
A month after reconciliation, I made the mistake of watching "Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor". I was a hot mess before the end. Not a good idea.
Posts: 7 | Registered: Sep 2013
Member # 39803
| Posted: 4:38 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
I've given up on movies. Even Despicable Me II triggered me, for reasons I cannot remember.
me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.
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Posts: 1739 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Member # 40603
| Posted: 10:43 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013|
watched sons of anarchy (tv show) and there has always been cheating in it...i got up and walked away...he just stared at me...
Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13
Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.
Posts: 78 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
Member # 37657
| Posted: 12:31 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013|
On the TV, Broadchurch , a murder mystery series on BBC. Fantastic show, but there were a couple of episodes surrounding an A, and the way the actress portrayed the BS was so realistic it ripped my heart out.
I write romance novels, or at least I used to prior to D-day. One of them was a 'forbidden love' story, which was my most popular story ever. It never set right with me, though, and I wrote a sequel (also prior to DDay) where they dealt with the aftermath and the WW ultimately reconciled with her BH. I got hate mail for it like you wouldn't believe saying I ruined a beautiful love story. Now, post D-day, I can't even bear to think about it.
[This message edited by DecimatedHeart at 12:31 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]
Me, BS 41
Him WH 42 - LTA, EA/PA
Together 24 years
DD13 - the love of my life
DDay#4 4/5/2013 (NC broken AGAIN)
A supposedly over 6/14/2013
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Posts: 129 | Registered: Nov 2012
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