This is a rough time of year for many people, and you have d-day on top of it so I'm sure it is magnified enormously. To have the horror of 9/11 punctuated by other horrific memories is not easy.
When I read your posts I see a young person who is open to growing and healing. I see a loving person full of hope and promise. I hope you can look back and be proud of the work you've done on yourself and continue to do.
Be kind to yourself and keep at it.