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User Topic: Wake me up when September ends...
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In some ways I really love Sept. I love the weather, football starts, baseball has the playoffs, ... lots of good things in Sept.

But a lot of bad memories too. My antiversary is this month, a lot of bad shit went down with X and OW 8 years ago, and my Dad died 6 years ago.

I wish I could have the weather and the football without the memories.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17687 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
cayc
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dreamboat)))


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3124 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dreamboat)))

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dreamboat - I understand. Your September is my August. Hang in there, practice your self-care, and the difficult days will soon be past you. (((((hugs)))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dreamboat)))


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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miadianna
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand. Mine is August. First date, August 28th and wedding August 10. Good thing I'm now am at tennis tournaments for both of those days and never remember until it's over because I'm so busy having a great time.


Me: BS 53
Son: 27 years old
Daughter: 25 years old
D-day(s) 9/23/94 - 1/31/05
Divorced 4/10/08

Posts: 7482 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Illinois
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

your September is my May. Don't sleep through it. You have identified some pretty good reasons to get up. At least on Saturdays.

((((Dreamboat))))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone

And (((hugs))) back

I think I am just really missing my parents right now and the calendar is not helping.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17687 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
gma56
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dreamboat)))

I hope you get through the month and when looking back you can say, "It wasn't so bad."

Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((dream))))))))


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yes, Dream, your September is my July.

My late mom's birthday

The day she died (my nephew's birthday)

Ex's ex wife's birthday and their anniversary.

My sister's birthday (the one who hates birthdays)

And then this year the fucktard decides to get engaged to OW in July!

I get it. Don't sleep through it. We all understand. It will go by before you know it.
I hope.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

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