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datura222
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

timed girl:

Yes, I find the madhatter thing very confusing. I know my cheating is 100% on me, and the weakness within my own character. I know I have to work through some serious issues stemming from my childhood (sexual abuse and abandonment issues).

It is so hard to try and relinquish the desire to control this situation. But my shit, and how I deal with it and come through it, is the only control I really have I guess.

Thanks for the input guys...it is so very much appreciated!!


In R
Dday: Father's Day 2013
We are madhatters.
Husband took a polygraph due to the risky nature of his infidelity.
Polygraphs: 1 fail, disclosure, passed 2

Posts: 44 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Bay Area CA
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But my shit, and how I deal with it and come through it, is the only control I really have I guess
.

This is more true than you know and it has more power than you know right now.

Take this one day at a time. You don't have to fix this in a day, or a week, or a month. This is a marathon, not a sprint.

And, yes, being a madhatter can be hard to navigate. Try not to compare your affair vs my affair.

Good luck. Hugs, I know first days are hard.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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