Well . . . not to be mean but this lady weighs about the same as I do. She's also six inches shorter.
She apologized and felt really bad about it. She's very extroverted and doesn't have much of a filter. She's always the loudest one in any group and she'd give you the shirt off your back if you needed it. Meanwhile I'm more reserved and overthink things. So we're just really different.
She still shouldn't have said it, but she meant no harm. Still mortifying!