@Right, you are, well, right.
I know I need to both eat right and lose weight not only for my weight but for my health. This, tho, is not the basis of this post. Its remembering what a person looks like, type of job they have, what they like or dont like, their education level or whether or not they can spell or add does not make or break a person. It is their character. How they chose to conduct their lives is what matters.
Eta: It can be said we also need to learn to have thicker skins. The old "sticks and stones" theory. That is very, very true.
On a personal note: I dont mind a good laugh at my expense. It happened in o.t. awhile back regarding my pet peeve on grammar. The reponses made me laugh out loud. A rarity these last 6 yrs.