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User Topic: Miley Cyrus...freak show!
circe
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wasn't offended by the performance...I just thought she looked like an idiot.

That's what I thought. I mean seriously, after Madonna and Lady Gaga and whatever, partial nudity and crotch grabbing and humping things is pretty lame as far as shocking the world goes. I think Toddlers in Tiaras has even covered most of that ground by now. So as far as being offensive, it is, but so is so much of what performers do these days to get attention. It's not even original-offensive, it's just lame.

But what really got me is that she wasn't even a good performer. She looked like a hyperactive uncoordinated kid jumping around trying to get their parents attention. She didn't even have any dance moves or choreography! I mean at least when Madonna wanted to shock us, she had a routine that went with it and it looked like she practiced it. Miley Cyrus was just randomly leaping around. It was embarrassing for her, even beyond doing it in her underwear and humping a foam thing.

Another thing? Her disgusting pasty tongue. That was one of the grossest tongues ever. It looked like a dehydrated panting dog tongue with the dried saliva. If she was trying to be sexy, didn't she at least look in the mirror to see if her tongue was pink? It was just... ewww. Like a corpse tongue.


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

re: her tongue. I wish she would put that thing away! It seems she has it out in every single "selfie" of her. Nobody wants to see that shit!


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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She looked like a tweaker. She needs a reality check.

I thought the same thing

BananaGirl13 and I watched a bit of it and early on, she said "Okay, this is totally ruining my childhood. I can't even" and stomped off.

Agreed. How freaking disturbing that whole thing was.


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I suspect she may be doing Ecstasy. Check out her pupils at the VMA's:


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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'know, it makes me sad. Why is it that every popular song that seems to come out these days has lyrics calling women "bitches"? What IS this?

And the sad thing is that women and girls of today not only aren't offended by this, but they SING ALONG.

The women of my mother's generation that marched for equal rights and worked so hard to make sure that their daughters would have a better future would be (and probably are) puking their guts out or turning in their graves to see what the world has become for women now.


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Posts: 594 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: The Chesapeake Bay
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just watched the video of her performance. Disgusting.

I happen to LOVE Blurred LInes. Yes, I've watched both versions of the video and I don't find it NEARLY as offensive as Miley's video for We Won't Stop (of is it Can't Stop?).

OMG, if you think Blurred Lines is bad, watch her video. Disturbing AND disgusting. After watching that video and reading that there are drug references in it ("dancing with molly" is some kind of slang for a drug) I believe she has taken a page out of Britney Spears handbook. I think she is going to self-destruct before she can start climbing back up. She's clearly on drugs, and promoting them in her work. I hope she finds her way back, but I fear that she's going to have to completely destruct like Britney before she'll even begin to clean up her act.

I think it's sad, because she IS talented. Shame that it's all going to waste.


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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But what really got me is that she wasn't even a good performer. She looked like a hyperactive uncoordinated kid jumping around trying to get their parents attention. She didn't even have any dance moves or choreography!

Amen! And she can't sing. But that's JMO...

Another thing? Her disgusting pasty tongue. That was one of the grossest tongues ever. It looked like a dehydrated panting dog tongue with the dried saliva. If she was trying to be sexy, didn't she at least look in the mirror to see if her tongue was pink? It was just... ewww. Like a corpse tongue.

Haha! Agreed.


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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But what really got me is that she wasn't even a good performer. She looked like a hyperactive uncoordinated kid jumping around trying to get their parents attention. She didn't even have any dance moves or choreography! I mean at least when Madonna wanted to shock us, she had a routine that went with it and it looked like she practiced it. Miley Cyrus was just randomly leaping around. It was embarrassing for her, even beyond doing it in her underwear and humping a foam thing.

100% this. So many talented performers out there and THIS is what gets air time?


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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This article explains how I kinda feel about it

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/26/dear-miley_n_3817375.html

I just thought it was...sad. I don't think it has anything to do with drugs, necessarily, and I'll defend some of her choices. I think her short hair looks great, when not done up in those ridiculous pigtails or whatever the hell those things were. And I'll even defend the flesh-coloured plastic bikini thing. She's 20 and at that age, my sister and I wore outfits to the club that didn't cover a whole lot more than that. And it's not like she's the first to wear something like that. Anyone remember Britney Spears's bedazzled flesh-coloured jump suit?

However, I saw her over the top, hyper-sexualized theatrics as very, very sad. To me, she seems a very talented young girl who has zero confidence in herself. Instead of letting her talent slowly and quietly pull her into adulthood, she's using her sexuality. Except she's too young to realize how desperate that looks.

Christina Aguilera did the same thing, at 22, with her "Dirrty" video.


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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup she's either faking going off the deep end, or she really has.

Look at that pic of her. She is so thin that her legs have no true tone, they certainly don't look like dancer legs. She has that gaunt look where her head is too big for her body.
I'm sorry but what she tried to pass as twerking was sad, that was just a little girl shaking her hiney.

It was a disaster from beginning to end. She sounded horrible, looked like a mental hospital escapee, and couldn't even really dance. At least with some of the other women mentioned here they can dance.

Yuck, yuck, yuck.

I love blurred lines, I's sorry but I don't see it as being demeaning to women, more as a statement of the woman he is singing about is strong, and making her own choices. No one is going to put her in her place. Just my thoughts.


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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love blurred lines, I's sorry but I don't see it as being demeaning to women, more as a statement of the woman he is singing about is strong, and making her own choices
ditto.


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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't even know backing your ass into some guys crotch HAD a name..........

And yeah...Miley sticking her tongue out was just stupid, weird and gross. I wonder if she will ever live it down.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Sorry, couldn't resist. I thought the whole number was classless - Miley and Thicke. She came off as a talentless idiot and looked like she was on something illegal. The whole thing was just yuck.


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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Look at this regarding Miley and her VMA appearance:

http://www.buzzfeed.com/daves4/things-miley-cyrus-looked-like-at-the-vmas


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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oy vey, where to begin?

I didn't watch the VMAs. Thankfully, my boys have no interest in that stuff. What I saw, I saw online this morning, and I've been shaking my head since.

Back when I was a kid on the farm, when animals were in heat, they would behave much like Ms. Miley did last night, and that's the first thing that popped in my head. To me, she looked like a big old she-cat in heat, trying to mate with anything looking remotely mate-able.

Good thing I wasn't at the show - I would've been unable to hold back that uncontrollable urge to douse the girl with a bucket of cold water to cool her down a bit.

But the very, very, VERY worst thing had to be Miss Miley's Magical, Mesmerizing, Dancing Tongue. I will have nightmares over that tongue for weeks! Every time the girl moved, she opened up her mouth and FOOMP - THERE IT WAS! Waggling and twisting and gyrating as if IT WAS DANCING to the music! Maybe that's the point? Maybe we are supposed to be in AWE of Miley's Magical Tongue? Because it has better moves than her? Maybe? God, I don't know, but there HAS to be a point to it all...doesn't there? Or maybe it was a cry for help - maybe there's something wrong with it? Does it not fit in her mouth properly? It looks very, very large, but she appears to have some control over it, so it's not like she has to swing it over her shoulder to get around, you know? I just don't know WHY we were subjected to Miley and Her Dancing Tongue like that. It really hurt my eyes. Really. I need to lie down now.


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Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There was something about this popping up all over my FB page today. Totally interesting point regarding how we were so quick to tear HER apart, but what about HIM??

Dr. Jill, a nationally recognized sexologist, speaker, writer, blogger, media personality, and activist, wrote this on her page:

[Dear Society,
If you think a woman in a tan vinyl bra and underwear, grabbing her crotch and grinding up on a dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive but you don’t think her dance partner is raunchy, trashy, or offensive as he sings a song about “blurred” lines of consent and propagating rape culture, then you may want to reevaluate your acceptance of double standards and your belief in stereotypes about how men vs. women “should” and are “allowed” to behave.

Sincerely,
Dr. Jill

Pretty interesting point. I found them both offensive and just sort of ridiculous. And I'm not prude at ALL, not too easily offended. To me it was just garbage. But hey, they got a lot of publicity from this didn't they? My guess is that wasn't an accident.

[This message edited by NWfleur at 1:01 AM, August 28th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im not real fond of these people bc of this sort of behavior.

Her album comes out on Tuesday. She has to do something that stands out. What seems acceptable or at least gets the most attention is bad behavior. She succeeded in getting her recognition and possibly a few more record sales.

This was 20 yrs ago, but in H.S. I took a class on the history of the Arts. If I remember correctly, plays and being an actor were out lawed waaaaayyyyyyy back when because it was felt this group had questionable morals. The people in the times of the triple digit years were onto something.


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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's my opinion of the whole thing said better by someone else.

http://sexologist.tumblr.com/post/59399069155/a-sexologists-two-cents-on-the-2013-mtv-vmas

Dear Society,

If you think a woman in a tan vinyl bra and underwear, grabbing her crotch and grinding up on a dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive but you don’t think her dance partner is raunchy, trashy, or offensive as he sings a song about “blurred” lines of consent and propagating rape culture, then you may want to reevaluate your acceptance of double standards and your belief in stereotypes about how men vs. women “should” and are “allowed” to behave.

Sincerely,
Dr. Jill


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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

slight t/j: There are a couple of pretty funny parodies of Blurred Lines out there...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKfwCjgiodg

and

http://vimeo.com/70304632


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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the fact that Robin Thicke didnt even TRY to touch her during his whole preformance speaks volumes on how he felt about her 'show'. Even when she grabbed him and licked his neck, he didn't bring his arm around or anything.

He never started any of the engagements with her, it was all Miley.

Also, the song, while still degrading women, does not promote rape. The lyric "imma take a good girl" just means that what he wants....like I take my dog on a walk, I take my husband on vacation, Take this woman to be your wife.

There are more lyrics in his song that give women the choice.

Look up the lyrics to a few of these:

Hootie Hoo by Outkast
Smack That by Akon
I Wanna Fuck You by Akon
Shake That Ass by Eminem and Nate Dogg
Bitches Ain't Shit But Hoes And Tricks by Dre, Snoop and two other guys
Wait Till You See My Dick (the whisper song) by Ying Yang Twins
No Hands by Waka Flocka
Wildflower by Ghostface Killah

Anyone remember the summer song "The Thong Song" by Cisco - not much uproar there but he "likes it when your bootie goooo"

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Fat Bottomed Girls - Queen


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