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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am telling my wife today when she comes home.
What exactly are you going to tell her? Did you end your affair?
I do believe I have a better connection with this women as I am a German National myself and I rushed into my marriage ( or am I just rationalizing again?)
So what? Whats your point? What does your tag line mean then? I love my wife with all my heart


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do believe I have a better connection with this women as I am a German National myself and I rushed into my marriage
And that means....what...?

People from all races have connections with other races as well as their own. That has absolutely nothing to do with it. So it was worth wrecking your marriage because you guys share a common bond with what exactly? German cars and Oktoberfest?

Call me crazy but I don't see how you two being from the same race and country makes your affair special.

Also, you "rushed into marriage". Is that a way of saying you married too young and didn't get a chance to sow your wild oats back in the day?


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

or am I just rationalizing again?
that's got to be a rhetorical question. You know the answer. Did you tell your wife? What was the outcome?


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"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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