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User Topic: egg freezing for women??
EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 5:37 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anybody have a real life experince with this?? What are the pros/cons?

Any feedback is much appreciated.


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Egg freezing doesn't work as well as sperm or embryo freezing.

Pro: you have eggs; with the right hormones the uterus can support a pregnancy well into your 50s if you're healthy

Con: the expense of the hormone cycling to get the eggs, the expense of paying for their storage
The physical drawback of having the hormone shots and egg extraction
Many of the eggs don't survive to be fertilized


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Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a friend who went through this process. I was there for emotional support for her.

Her experience was very successful. They harvested a number of eggs first go round (great).

Cons for her: massive mood swings, weight gain, very expensive (one go round was about $10K)

Pros: Took weight off of her shoulders. She wants to be a mom but is single and 36. She said she no longer feels a sense of urgency with these men she dates. She can slow down.


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GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Freezing eggs has come a long way. They're getting the process figured out but make sure you do your homework on clinics and find the one with the best success (live births).


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
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