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User Topic: The Big F**king Blowup aka B.F.B.
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've decided I'm coining the acronym BFB for our use here on the boards...or wherever you may need it in your life....

BFB: Big Fucking Blowup

I was thinking it has lots of uses...

It could be an event in and of itself...

We had a BFB last night.

It could also refer to the entirety of a situation...

My LIfe has become a BFB.


It could refer to the need to let out pent up emotions

I just need to have a BFB. OR

You just need to get it out of your system and have a BFB.

I dunno....it just seemed...appropriate to my ife right now....


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good one! I'd say my entire life has been entirely blown the fuck up. So sorry you had a BFB last night.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9821 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good timing. I had and am still in the middle of the first BFB this evening.

Sheesh.

K


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 724 | Registered: Aug 2013
Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can see BFB getting a lot of use around here.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
mandan66
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a good one---I have a BFB coming up on Sunday night, as my STBXW and I are to engage in 'mediation' about child support. Am really looking forward to it.


Me: 47; WW: 48
2 DS: 9, 14
M:18--T:19
DDay: Jan/13
Divorced and Done!--7/13

Posts: 121 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: KS
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup. I knew it was going to have lots of applications. Wonder how long it will take to be granted a permanent position on the official abbreviations list. LOL

Good luck with the upcoming BFBs everyone.

Try to remember that we have the ability to set the pace and tone of the BFB.

Don't be reactionary. Take the high road.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
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