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User Topic: When in doubt,.......
Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Punt


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

Posts: 6508 | Registered: Mar 2003 | From: Wisconsin
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't hit send


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1221 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
TrulyReconciled
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Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ good advice ^^^


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21337 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...about major life decisions ask yourself is it what you want to do or what you think you should do?

p.s. I hope it goes without saying that this does not apply to promises, contracts or vows. You kind of already made the decision in that case.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 4007 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When in doubt,.....

do as the doubters do, or does that only apply to Rome?


LTA FBS 54
dday 10.5.09
Separated and Divorcing

Posts: 4140 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: FL
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Spit it out!


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 6596 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Order out (I'm a food sniffer... too many bad experiences with left overs!)


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2262 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When in doubt
I whip it out
I got me a rock 'n' roll band
It's a free-for-all

~Ted Nugent - Free For All


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


Posts: 3088 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keep your mouth shut.

ok it doesn't rhyme, but it's taken me nearly 43 years to learn this one.

Snapdragon:
Love the Nugent reference btw


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8744 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kick it out

The 7-8yo coach of my DD's soccer team used to say this to the girls while trying to teach them strategy

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Smile


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 799 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
alphakitte
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't


------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

Posts: 350 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: 3 klicks north of Ambiguous
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Turn This Mutha Out

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1q2TA2zPtac


Posts: 11777 | Registered: Mar 2008
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...throw it out.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9858 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 3:10 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When in doubt, make sure whatever you do can't be traced.



Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2008
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

stay silent


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2755 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

throw him out

Well at least it rhymes!


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2755 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:37 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

eat chocolate

(It doesn't rhyme but always helps me think)


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2755 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
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